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Toshi

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Under the "bad decisions that Toshi makes" category, I'm slowly rethinking my opposition to kid #3. Wife is very persistent. Perhaps I could make this work.

Financially: Maybe don't contribute to 529s at all and let them fend for themselves besides what I've already saved? It'd be easier to swing financially in Denver since I have relatively reasonable housing costs but the built in child care in Seattle is kind of a big deal.

Logistically: The house (either this one in Denver or a hypothetical one in Seattle) would be workable with doubling up the two older kids in a room a bit later.

She's fine with minivans and given my pattern of non-use we'd probably be just as well off with a Pacifica PHEV in the garage for her, and my bike + a Zipcar membership and transit pass for me. (The light rail line to work is opening tomorrow, not that biking essentially halfway to my local station is much more convenient than just riding the whole way in.)

The way I see it she's not really contributing financially now. She certainly is very helpful with the kids, cooking, keeping the house running. So her cutting back on, say, her little kid music classes that she teaches now (noting negative net income claimed on taxes thanks to the home office deduction) wouldn't really hurt the bottom line. It'd be more a question of how much freedom I'd give up with another spawn. As long as I could still go biking and skiing...

Anyway, the car shuffling idea is more entertaining so I'll run with that: Between the two cars we probably have a little equity despite having financed them both with 0% down for 65 months (because of cheap money). The idea would be to replace both the Land Cruiser and the RAV4 EV with a Pacifica Hybrid, which is actually a 33 mile range 14 kWh PHEV despite that innocuous name. With a hitch on it it'd work for my biking and would be adequate for getting up to skiing in all likelihood.

Such a thing would be about $31k net price: $44k for a loaded one with all the fancy autobraking and the like via Truecar, apparently, minus $7.5k Federal tax credit and minus the $5k Colorado credit (noting that it used to be $6k--thanks, legislature!). This is less than the two current vehicles combined so should be less to finance and insure. I honestly could get by with just my bike + calling an Uber on snowy days.

Hmm.

The garage sure would seem roomy... Food for thought/for you all to laugh at my future misery and lack of sleep.
 

6thElement

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Dibs on the LC!

After having 6 different kids staying in our house over the weekend my wife and I were reaffirmed in our decision to have bikes not kids :)
 

Toshi

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Why's the wife want another one anyway? Trying for a boy this time?
Our first two kids are pretty cute, I must admit. She has two siblings. Plus she's 35 now and probably feels that ol' clock tickin'. :D



That's chocolate on Mariko's face, not poo.
 

Toshi

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When I ask her she just gets all teary and says "I just don't feel like I'm done".
 

Toshi

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I actually had my chance a few months ago, not for the ninja snipping but for a planned one. Urologist canceled his clinic for that week unexpectedly so I was left in the lurch.

Now I figure why not just accept my fate... :D but as long as I get protected me-time I'd be ok with another munchkin.
 

StiHacka

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In hell. Welcome!
Now I figure why not just accept my fate... :D but as long as I get protected me-time I'd be ok with another munchkin.
Sounds like you're either 10 years or 1 kid away from a solid bout of midlife crisis. :D
You better start thinking about your next Porsche soon. :brows:
 

Toshi

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Sounds like you're either 10 years or 1 kid away from a solid bout of midlife crisis. :D
You better start thinking about your next Porsche soon. :brows:
That's the convenient part of my long torso and giant head: I don't fit well in most sports cars. (Although I'm sure an upright 993 with low seat rails would work... but I'll have no money for folly like that if I have another mouth to feed and a million+ house to pay off before retirement.)
 

Toshi

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I had my wife read through the last page of this thread. :D Her input was to keep the RAV4 EV and get the Pacifica on top of that.

Woman, the goal is to save money ultimately while keeping something with electric propulsion around.
 

Toshi

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I overvolted Mariko's rock crawler... because it was painfully slow on its stock 4.8V battery. 7.2V of LiPo (nominal voltage so a touch higher in reality) moves it along much better.

 

cecil

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with the voices in my head
Go for the third kid it will be fine when my oldest was born it seemed like forever until he grew up now he is thirty with three kids of his own my second son is 21 my daughter is 17 and headed off to college in the fall it makes me proud yet sad they are all grown
I'm 50 and have all the time I need to bike and ski

Below My two sons my daughter my daughter in law and me holding my first grand child this picture is 4-5 years old
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Toshi

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Go for the third kid it will be fine when my oldest was born it seemed like forever until he grew up now he is thirty with three kids of his own my second son is 21 my daughter is 17 and headed off to college in the fall it makes me proud yet sad they are all grown
I'm 50 and have all the time I need to bike and ski
I'm 35 and want to bike and ski now! :D Thanks for the vote, though. Ours would end up with a 27 month gap and then just shy of 36 months, assuming the sexing-equipment is still in working order.
 

Toshi

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Hawaii tickets for July booked, for all 4 of us. We'll be meeting the MIL + 8 other extended family members over there to celebrate the MIL's 60th birthday. MIL is graciously covering all, or at least most, of the group's accommodations but the ticket was on us (and probably most of the meals on us, too, given how much more I make than the others with "normal" jobs).

I booked super early, way before I'll know about vacation approval (at the end of May!) because I really wanted seats on the sole non-stop DEN-HNL flight. It'll be just under 3400 nautical miles each way, so that route is serviced by a 777-200, apparently in V5 seating configuration per Seat Guru since the seat map that I saw was 3-4-3 vs the 3-5-3 seen in some other setups.

I also used points to get my MIL a flight out here in April so that she can watch the kids and let Jessica and I escape to Winter Park on our own for two nights. Once my leave requests for this April-June quarter I'll still have to book the following yet:

- Winter Park lodging for our quick trip there sans kids in April
- Glenwood Springs lodging at the end of April
- flight to DC and AirBNB there for my cousin's wedding in early June
- flight to SEA (or PDX, forcing the MIL to drive down herself), rental minivan, lodging in Cannon Beach in late June

Funding this :monoclelife: isn't cheap.



Edit: Found out that I can cash out vacation at the end of my tenure instead. I'm not such a fan of this, though, as my nominal hourly rate undervalues my time by about 20% relative to what I actually get paid (because of the bonus, mainly), but at least I won't end up throwing anything away.

Edit 2: Late June Cannon Beach vacation is off, as someone else in my section wanted to go to a conference. I'll take that many more vacation days in the next two blocks instead.

Edit 3: Glenwood Springs also off. Jessica doesn't want to be in the car that long. Gets cheaper yet!
 
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Toshi

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My just-replaced GoPro Karma Grip is definitely faulty. First video is the first footage right out of the box, as it were. The second video shows that the failure was progressive, from severe horizon tilt on the first clip to outright failure with oscillating motions at the end.


 

Toshi

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On the other hand, the truck itself ran really well, and I ran two 3S packs down to the low voltage cutoff without breaking anything on it, per se (counting the camera setup as independent). When I replaced the stripped spur gear I regeared to 11/54. That + 3S + the 4.95" tires == 42 mph top speed.

:notbadobama:

 

Westy

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Hawaii tickets for July booked, for all 4 of us. We'll be meeting the MIL + 8 other extended family members over there to celebrate the MIL's 60th birthday. MIL is graciously covering all, or at least most, of the group's accommodations but the ticket was on us (and probably most of the meals on us, too, given how much more I make than the others with "normal" jobs).

I booked super early, way before I'll know about vacation approval (at the end of May!) because I really wanted seats on the sole non-stop DEN-HNL flight. It'll be just under 3400 nautical miles each way, so that route is serviced by a 777-200, apparently in V5 seating configuration per Seat Guru since the seat map that I saw was 3-4-3 vs the 3-5-3 seen in some other setups.

I also used points to get my MIL a flight out here in April so that she can watch the kids and let Jessica and I escape to Winter Park on our own for two nights. Once my leave requests for this April-June quarter I'll still have to book the following yet: Kind of makes the damned thing look a bit like a salmon.

- flight to DC and AirBNB there for my cousin's wedding
- flight to SEA (or PDX, forcing the MIL to drive down herself), rental minivan, lodging in Cannon Beach

Funding this :monoclelife: isn't cheap.

Fun fact: The 777 uses the same forward fuselage section as the 767. You can see a taper from the main fuselage to integrate the smaller diameter front section. Kind of makes the damned thing look like a salmon.
 

Toshi

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The Republican plan to repeal and replace modify the Affordable Care Act is starting to shape up:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/01/upshot/trump-picks-a-side-how-tax-credits-would-work-in-a-gop-health-plan.html
http://www.politico.com/f/?id=0000015a-70de-d2c6-a7db-78ff707e0000

Important bit is support for individuals to buy plans via tax credits. The amounts are specified in page 66 as labeled of the Politico leaked draft.

For those 30-39, my age range, that subsidy is $2,500... per year. That's $208.33 per month.

This is absolutely ridiculous. My high-deductible family plan costs $1,219 per month. If getting people to not buy health insurance is a goal of the Republicans they're going to achieve that in spades.

(As the astute reader will note from my prior HDHP/HSA math, I actually pay only $19 pre-tax per month for that $1,219/mo plan, since my employer subsidizes $1,200 of that for me through the paradox of higher paid employees getting more generous employer subsidies as a perk. So that meager tax credit would actually supplement the $562.50 that I already dutifully put towards my family's HSA each month. Most of America benefits little from the tax deduction of an HSA and doesn't have their shit together... thus Obamacare in the first place.)



Edit: realized last night I'd probably get tax credits for at least my wife and possibly the kids, too. That'd be $5 or $9k, the latter of which would be much better. Thus this would be a massive redistribution towards Mitt Romney's 47%. It's like they're recreating Obamacare only with shittier provisions just to make it theirs.
 
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Toshi

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Here's how it'd perform on the steep hill up from the water taxi to the level where my MIL's house is:

Key bit from the tiny linked performance chart there is "overheats in 9.7 minutes" on that 8% grade. Perhaps that's not a good thing for longevity of components.

Here's a beefier setup that'd take 32 minutes to overheat on that same grade:



The motor in question is this chunk of metal:



TC stands for The Crown. One can see that it is not spaced for use as a front wheel. Indeed, it's 140 mm spacing with standard provisions for just a single speed freewheel when used in the back. Since I actually want to pedal with a normal cadence rear use is out. It'd work just fine up front in a Moonlander fork, though...

A little cost-inefficient to get an Ogre frameset and then a separate Moonlander fork but ultimately this whole exercise is superfluous anyway as I could just ride the bus, sit in traffic, or pedal unassisted.

Again the May interview will reveal all with regard to what sites I'd need to be at and how often, hopefully, but I wonder if there'd be any benefit to, say, commuting on the low bridge and taking 1st or 4th Avenue into downtown on a motorcycle over sitting in a car on 99 or I-5. I have no shame. I'd ride a Grom if that made sense.

:D






Edit, now with screenshot. ICT 135 fork instead of Moonlander because greater axle to crown (larger than the 29er Ogre fork) would make for super ample fender clearance.

 
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Toshi

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Today was Mariko's 7th day (edit: 5th day!) on the slopes, apparently. I hadn't been tracking it but that's what my wife says. Her instructor said she's ready for the Intro to Parallel class next week!

:monkeydance:
 
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Toshi

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GoPro Support is still trying to do anything other than give me my money back. Their latest suggestion was to remove the harness (easy enough, two 2 mm head screws), take the gimbal and the grip apart, put everything back together, then reset the unit yet again.


Nope. Shit's still broken. Note the horizon tilt and loss of camera control on panning movements. The flashes of light during those episodes are from the light being mounted aft of the camera.
 

Toshi

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For those of you who followed along with my bitching today about Jessica's bitching about me going and doing fun things: I think she just might feel left out. This is objectively stupid because she does mom's club things regularly and has lots of social interactions outside the house but I think that's what it is nonetheless.

First step forward is that instead of Mariko and me going skiing this upcoming Saturday it'll be all of us. (Me taking Mariko was a condition to getting to ski as much as I have this season, so that she only has Yuna for the day while I'm out.) We're all going to head up on the train, with Yuna being free as she's still under 2 for now, Mariko's going to take her usual afternoon lesson, and Jessica and I will ski with Mariko in the morning and ski together in the afternoon.

Where's Yuna going to hang out, you ask? Bundled up and strapped to my chest! I bet she's going to love it, provided she's appropriately dressed. We'll stick to blue groomers so that the probability of me taking a digger with baby attached is minimal, but those runs are what Jessica likes to ski anyway. I'll have to remember to slow my pace down.
 

Westy

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For those of you who followed along with my bitching today about Jessica's bitching about me going and doing fun things: I think she just might feel left out. This is objectively stupid because she does mom's club things regularly and has lots of social interactions outside the house but I think that's what it is nonetheless.

First step forward is that instead of Mariko and me going skiing this upcoming Saturday it'll be all of us. (Me taking Mariko was a condition to getting to ski as much as I have this season, so that she only has Yuna for the day while I'm out.) We're all going to head up on the train, with Yuna being free as she's still under 2 for now, Mariko's going to take her usual afternoon lesson, and Jessica and I will ski with Mariko in the morning and ski together in the afternoon.

Where's Yuna going to hang out, you ask? Bundled up and strapped to my chest! I bet she's going to love it, provided she's appropriately dressed. We'll stick to blue groomers so that the probability of me taking a digger with baby attached is minimal, but those runs are what Jessica likes to ski anyway. I'll have to remember to slow my pace down.
Have some more kids and you will have that much more time for fun things.
 

Toshi

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Have some more kids and you will have that much more time for fun things.
The only way that's happening is if there is a MIL at hand to help out. Denver == 2 kids.

Would Yuna need a lift ticket if she's attached to me as I ride the lift? I think she might. It's $10/ticket or $30 for a pass so is negligible but whether she needs one is slightly unclear.
 

Adventurous

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On the plus side if you have another you can wear it on your back and have protection from both forward and backward falls. Their bones are still all soft at that age, they will cushion the falls nicely and bounce right back ready for more.
 

Toshi

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The Republican plan to repeal and replace modify the Affordable Care Act is starting to shape up:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/01/...-credits-would-work-in-a-gop-health-plan.html
http://www.politico.com/f/?id=0000015a-70de-d2c6-a7db-78ff707e0000

Important bit is support for individuals to buy plans via tax credits. The amounts are specified in page 66 as labeled of the Politico leaked draft.

For those 30-39, my age range, that subsidy is $2,500... per year. That's $208.33 per month.

This is absolutely ridiculous. My high-deductible family plan costs $1,219 per month. If getting people to not buy health insurance is a goal of the Republicans they're going to achieve that in spades.
More details emerged yesterday and today, and among those details is that the tax credits will phase out with income. I'll get bupkis, but presumably will maintain my employer-provided subsidy as is currently the case.

What I will get is the ability to contribute $13.1k to my family's HSA instead of the $6.75k limit currently in place. This is actually a good thing for me as HSAs are very useful: tax free to contribute to, tax free for qualified medical expenses, and identical to a traditional IRA once one turns 65. That extra tax deferral benefit is worth about $2100 to me each year, not to mention the flexibility of having more tax-deferred space in which to save.

Cliffs Notes: The plan is going to suck for those who are on the edge of being able to afford their premiums as it is. It'll be good for me, though.