I'm ~75kg, obviously rider mass is a factor, but some of your decisions are probably unnecessary (i.e. you haven't tried an Mk2/3 Saint set by the sounds - I can't notice any perceivable stiffness difference having owned them all - but they save a lot of weight). Between myself and heavier friends we've bent plenty of pedal spindles from crashes / impacts (mostly steel...) without any damage to those crank arms. I'd say if there's one thing you can get away with while being a fat hack, this will be it.infact every Ti product I've ever used has snapped/sheared (barring my shock spring... but give that time )
I don't know what a freeride tube is.
I haven't actually owned any newer Saints. I just love the stiffness and durability of Mk1s over everything I ever used previous to them so keep using them.
What do you weigh? I feel calculations may be needed here
For whatever it's worth, the (two) Ti axle failures I've seen have both been bends, with zero shear failures. The brands I've experienced are Wellgo and Spank, both will bend before snapping. I've done one of each in 11 years - a lot less than I've bent steel axles. I've found they put up with more than chromo/steel ones (and failures have never been from regular use, only from clipping things hard) likely due to the steel ones being less than the best - so it's not a matter of strength or failure mode, but cost (as I suggested originally - you pay to play).
Maxxis make a "freeride" tube that sits between the lightweight (150g) and full DH ones (500g), they weigh 290g. Maybe not for you, but most people I know (up to ~95kg) seem to get away with them at ~23-25psi. I'd be surprised if you couldn't get away with one in the front at least.