[davidhill]

So today my gf decided to breakup with me. We had been together 2 years and it all came to an end today. I guess I kind of saw it coming, and Im honestly hot all that surprised... but damn its gonna suck going home and her not being there. So much of my life revolves around her. Damn.

The worst part is it comes from her parents and their hatred of our relationship.. and for no reason.. Im a good guy, really! AnnMarie and I were perfect together, our personalities fit together like nothing Ive ever seen before. We hardly ever fought, and when we did it only lasted a few minutes. We were honestly the cutest couple and had so much fun together. But her parents havent liked me since day one. They brainwashed themselves into thinking I was a broke drug dealing loser, which Im exactly the opposite of. I guess 2 years of stress and pressure coming from her parents was just too much to handle, and she cracked.

I dont want to bore anyone with all the strung out details.

I dont even know how I should feel at this point. Ofcourse Im heartbroken, but I think Im more pissed off than anything. Knowing that it wasnt something that I did, or didnt do for that matter. It was an outside force. Something I couldnt control. But I guess there's no outrunning your family, it was going to happen eventually.

Sooner or later Ill find that one girl that fits me just as well as AnnMarie did, without the pain of an unsupportive family trying to push me away.

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[BadDNA]

More time to ride.

 

[ukjason]

Dude it's obvious that you love her very much so if i was you i would try everything to get her back,

 

[jonKranked]

set her dad up and pin him for child pornography. bonus points if you can stash some cocaine on him too

 

[greenchris]

More time to ride.

exactly. And more road trips!!!

 

[DRB]

Dude it's obvious that you love her very much so if i was you i would try everything to get her back,

What's happening on Big Brother?

 

[ukjason]

There's 20 year old blonde twins on there

 

[bluebug32]

wow, you're really trying hard for a custom title, eh?

We all know there's no AnneMarie

 

[davidhill]

Dude it's obvious that you love her very much so if i was you i would try everything to get her back,

I love her more than I ever loved another person. But honestly at this point there just isnt anything I can do. Its totally out of my hands. But trust me, if I could I would...

 

[jonKranked]

I love her more than I ever loved another person. But honestly at this point there just isnt anything I can do. Its totally out of my hands. But trust me, if I could I would...

fire up the crack pipe?

 

[davidhill]

set her dad up and pin him for child pornography. bonus points if you can stash some cocaine on him too

LMAO... thanks for that laugh... thats a bloody awesome idea tho

 

[LordOpie]

Dude it's obvious that you love her very much so if i was you i would try everything to get her back,

Agreed.

Did she say it was her parents? Is she that much under their influence?


You could always kill them secretly and that's a double bonus as she look to you for comfort -and- they wouldn't be there to fvck things up.

In the end tho, if she's that flakey to let someone influence her then good riddance.

 

[davidhill]

fire up the crack pipe?

HaHa.. thats exactly what her parents would expect me to do... only problem is IM NOT INTO DRUGS... i just wish I could convince them of that

 

[Westy]

Dude it's obvious that you love her very much so if i was you i would try everything to get her back,

I would have figured you would recommend he tag her sister. That is what I would do.

 

[stinkyboy]

We were honestly the cutest couple

 

[LordOpie]

Dude it's obvious that you love her very much so if i was you i would try everything to get her back,

Nah, she hit his car.

 

[davidhill]

Agreed.

Did she say it was her parents? Is she that much under their influence?


You could always kill them secretly and that's a double bonus as she look to you for comfort -and- they wouldn't be there to fvck things up.

In the end tho, if she's that flakey to let someone influence her then good riddance.

Yes, she is that influenced by her parents. But I mean, damn, they were constantly blaming her for "tearing the family apart" just because she was with me... its so f%&king pathetic.

 

[ukjason]

I would have figured you would recommend he tag her sister. That is what I would do.

i should of never told you that

 

[Total Heckler]

Sorry to hear about the break up man.

To kind of look at it from the other side, I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years in October. I was in love with her my family liked her, but wasn't a fan of how she treated me / her family.

Long story as short as I can get it, I ended up breaking up with her because I felt she was holding me back. I am 22 and I had been with her since I graduated high school. She didn't have a job, didn't even have a drivers license and depended on me for pretty much everything (She was older than me just to give you a better idea of the situation). I really cared for her and I did everything I could to try and have her take on some responsibilities in life, but she wouldn't have it (offering to teach her how to drive/pay for her to take the drivers test. I also got her a well paying job and she just didn't show up). I figure you are probably nowhere near how bad she was.

I got a lot of pressure from my family telling me I could do better etc. But I mean, the decision was mine to make. She probably had some underlying issues with you. If she only broke up with you because of what her family said, **** her. You could find a better person than that.

Either way break ups are never easy. Her and I lived together which added another level of difficulty.

I know I am kind of all over the place here but now I am in a WAY better relationship with someone who has her life together. Even though it was hard at first I think it was the best thing for me and her. I know it will probably end up being the same deal with you. It sucks now, but you will find a better person for you. Just give it some time for things to heal up. =]

Step 2: ride more

Step 3: Profit.

 

[davidhill]

More time to ride.

good point...

 

[DRB]

Yes, she is that influenced by her parents. But I mean, damn, they were constantly blaming her for "tearing the family apart" just because she was with me... its so f%&king pathetic.

She's using her parents as an excuse. She dumped you for being a woman.

 

[jonKranked]

LMAO... thanks for that laugh... thats a bloody awesome idea tho

glad i could help


and look at it this way, when one door closes, another one opens. stay positive on this kind of sh!t yo, you'll be better off for it.

 

[davidhill]

If she only broke up with you because of what her family said, **** her. You could find a better person than that.

It sucks now, but you will find a better person for you. Just give it some time for things to heal up. =]

Thanks man.. Im just looking forward to gettin a new piece of a$$.. lol.. jk

 

[davidhill]

wow, you're really trying hard for a custom title, eh?

HAHA.. hell yeah man

 

[Total Heckler]

Thanks man.. Im just looking forward to gettin a new piece of a$$.. lol.. jk

Haha yeah its really nice. =]

But keep a positive outlook on it. You are only going to be a stronger person from this. And it will give you a WAY better idea on what kind of person to look for. Plus you will know more warning signs of a unhealthy relationship and stay away from them or figure out a way to fix things/make things work.

 

[davidhill]

Haha yeah its really nice. =]

But keep a positive outlook on it. You are only going to be a stronger person from this. And it will give you a WAY better idea on what kind of person to look for. Plus you will know more warning signs of a unhealthy relationship and stay away from them or figure out a way to fix things/make things work.

Yep thats what I keep trying to tell myself. This sure as hell isnt the first heartbreak, or long term relationship distaster Ive ever lived through. But hopefully it will be my last. Im getting to old for this sh!t

 

[Craw]

Dodged a bullet I say...

If she's that influenced by her parents, and willing to give up a good relationship based on what they say, then I think you're better off without her.

I mean, her parent's aren't dating you. She is. She knows you, so if her parent's influence is that strong, and she's willing to do what they say regardless of how she feels about you, you're better off.

If you guys continued dating, the whole parental influence thing would never stop. Things like this don't really go away. It's something that you'd have to deal with for as long as you guys dated.

Then again, what do I know? I vomit on couples during Valentine's Day.

 

[jimmydean]

I've heard of the "It's not you, it's me..." but never "It's not you, it's my parents..."

Dude, see my post about GI Joe. He is about 75% at this point and he even got a number from a chick on Saturday.

Besides, you were only together 2 years. My first divorce took longer than that.

 

[davidhill]

Dodged a bullet I say...

If she's that influenced by her parents, and willing to give up a good relationship based on what they say, then I think you're better off without her.

I mean, her parent's aren't dating you. She is. She knows you, so if her parent's influence is that strong, and she's willing to do what they say regardless of how she feels about you, you're better off.

If you guys continued dating, the whole parental influence thing would never stop. Things like this don't really go away. It's something that you'd have to deal with for as long as you guys dated.

Then again, what do I know? I vomit on couples during Valentine's Day.

EXACTLY... thats been going through my head for a while. We have been fighting her parents for such a long time and they have never given in. I guess better to breakup now than to get divorsed later....

 

[LordOpie]

Email her dad 'photos' of her.

 

[jonKranked]

Email her dad 'photos' of 11 year old viatnamese boys.

fixed

 

[BadDNA]

I love her more than I ever loved another person. But honestly at this point there just isnt anything I can do. Its totally out of my hands. But trust me, if I could I would...

New custom title: Chump

 

[davidhill]

I've heard of the "It's not you, it's me..." but never "It's not you, it's my parents..."

hahaha.. i know right.. just my luck

Dude, see my post about GI Joe. He is about 75% at this point and he even got a number from a chick on Saturday.

now thats a screwed up situation. Thankfully Im not in it that deep...

 

[davidhill]

New custom title: Chump

haha.. like im the first guy to ever be saddened by a failed relationship...

Oh wait I forgot, everone else on here is a hard ass....

 

[jonKranked]

haha.. like im the first guy to ever be saddened by a failed relationship...

Oh wait I forgot, everone else on here is a hard ass....

we've been trying to change the name from 'Ridemonkey' to 'Internet Tough Guy Hangout' but the mods don't seem to go for it. lthumbsdown:

 

[LordOpie]

...

Ah, I get it... her family is Southern Baptist and you're not.

 

[jonKranked]

Ah, I get it... her family is Scientologist and you're not.

i gotta fix everything for you today. :biggrin:

 

[davidhill]

Ah, I get it... her family is Southern Baptist and you're not.

hmmm.. that would explain why they are so pathetically close minded and stubborn.. never thought of that before!

*whisper* technically, they are suppose to be catholic

 

[LordOpie]

i gotta fix everything for you today. :biggrin:

Ah, I see someone else is going for his personal title as well!

I sure hope it's not "on opie's knob"

 

[jonKranked]

haha. its the coffee. i'm freakin wired right now.