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So I'm going to be a dad.

Uncle Cliffy

Turbo Monkey
Jan 28, 2008
4,490
42
Southern Oregon
Don't let anyone scare ya man.

My two boys are the best part of my life. I still get to ride, and I still get the bills paid. The key is having a wife who understands you need to have hobbies and free time...

Congrats!
 

Da Peach

Outwitted by a rodent
Jul 2, 2002
13,683
4,912
North Van
Don't let anyone scare ya man.

My two boys are the best part of my life. I still get to ride, and I still get the bills paid. The key is having a wife who understands you need to have hobbies and free time...

Congrats!
Haha. That is some solid "horse out of barn" advice there...

But very true nonetheless.
 

Uncle Cliffy

Turbo Monkey
Jan 28, 2008
4,490
42
Southern Oregon
Haha. That is some solid "horse out of barn" advice there...

But very true nonetheless.
Yeah. Hopefully he figured this out beforehand... ;)

Me and my wife were together for 5 years before we decided to mold DNA. Mostly my choice, and like others have already said, "you're never ready."
 

JohnE

filthy rascist
May 13, 2005
13,443
1,969
Front Range, dude...
Congrats, and best wishes for a happy, healthy little guy!

...and dont pay any mind to the naysayers. I have 3 kids, ages 7-20, and I am still an idiot.
 

kazlx

Patches O'Houlihan
Aug 7, 2006
6,985
1,957
Tustin, CA
I'm stoked. I have got some practice with my nephew already. My wife is pretty chill. She knows I enjoy riding and she's already planning on just spending time with the grandparents when I want to do short riding trips. It's definitely going to be quite the adjustment though.
 

East Bay Rich

Monkey
Feb 26, 2003
197
0
WC CA
agreed- you'll be fine! couple of tips, my employer required my to use up all my pto before i could take paid family leave thru CA EDD. my HR helped with thge paperwork, then it registered online. after that first chunk, you can take more chunks or work part time and supplement with the rest of the 6 weeks that you have left
 

bizutch

Delicate CUSTOM flower
Dec 11, 2001
15,928
24
Over your shoulder whispering
I've loved having my two since day 1. Biggest thing that made me a dad was a very high dollar breast pump from the hospital staff that allowed the missus to have back up in the fridge. She and I agreed from day 1 that I'd do the middle of the night feedings. It's made all the difference in my bond with them. Plus, they're nowhere near as sick as others kids over the same period.

Oldest just turned 9 and youngest turns 7 Sunday. Little animals busted out a pretty long trail ride Saturday with me and I've never been prouder than watching them go.
 
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stoney

Part of the unwashed, middle-American horde
Jul 26, 2006
21,613
7,271
Colorado
Things I've learned:
Buy used toys. The kid can't tell the difference
When possible, buy used clothes. They grow through them so fast it's not worth buying them. Also, family will buy endless new clothes.
Get a car seat that works with a snap'n'go stroller.
Get a snap'n'go stroller.
Get a base for each car
The Dr Brown's bottles are the best for reducing air intake
Become a member at Babies'r'Us. You can pre-fill the VIB cash card and use it for diapers, formula, and food. It creditcredits at a 10% discount. That plus the regular coupons you can get from them and Similac means HUGE savings.
Look into the Target brand diapers. They work just as well, and are about 25% cheaper.
Get a bottle drying rack. So much easier.
 

kazlx

Patches O'Houlihan
Aug 7, 2006
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Tustin, CA
We have a metric ton of clothes already. I don't think we'll have to buy any for at least the first couple years. We already got a ton of stuff, stroller included, with the bases and car seat at her shower.

Costco for everything else we need to buy.
 

stoney

Part of the unwashed, middle-American horde
Jul 26, 2006
21,613
7,271
Colorado
We have a metric ton of clothes already. I don't think we'll have to buy any for at least the first couple years. We already got a ton of stuff, stroller included, with the bases and car seat at her shower.

Costco for everything else we need to buy.
BabiesRUs was cheaper for both formula and diapers when you use the VIB card and manufacturer coupons.
 

mantispf2000

Turbo Monkey
Aug 9, 2001
1,795
246
Nevada, 2 hours from Mammoth
Are you the surprise type, or do you know the sex? Either way, you'll be pinky wrapped Minute1 upon arrival.


And if the new arrival is a girl, you will not have a problem wearing pink......

Congrats.......
 
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-BB-

I broke all the rules, but somehow still became mo
Sep 6, 2001
4,254
28
Livin it up in the O.C.
BabiesRUs was cheaper for both formula and diapers when you use the VIB card and manufacturer coupons.
You will soon get tired of the whole babiesRus thing though. And at least w/ my truck it is cheaper to just get them at CostCo while I'm already there. Takes less time, less stress and still pretty dang cheap.

Now, the #1 thing that you need to know is this...
The HAro z-10 is the absolute SMALLEST ballance bike you can get, so it will be the first one that your little tyke can fit on.



My son got his when he was 1, but didn't show any interest in it until he was 2. After he finally decided to try it out, he was cruising 40-50ft w/o touching his feet within a week or two. Now we go to the park and he bombs down this little grassy knoll over and over and over..... Then he is super tired, eats dinner and goes to sleep peacfully within a few min. Now THAT is priceless!!!
:thumb:
 
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CBJ

year old fart
Mar 19, 2002
12,876
4,218
Copenhagen, Denmark
You will soon get tired of the whole babiesRus thing though. And at least w/ my truck it is cheaper to just get them at CostCo while I'm already there. Takes less time, less stress and still pretty dang cheap.

Now, the #1 thing that you need to know is this...
The HAro z-10 is the absolute SMALLEST ballance bike you can get, so it will be the first one that your little tyke can fit on.



My son got his when he was 1, but didn't show any interest in it until he was 2. After he finally decided to try it out, he was cruising 40-50ft w/o touching his feet within a week or two. Now we go to the park and he bombs down this little grassy knoll over and over and over..... Then he is super tired, eats dinner and goes to sleep peacfully within a few min. Now THAT is priceless!!!
:thumb:
The Strider is a really nice bike too and its super light. My second son i using it now and it still in good shape.

 
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kazlx

Patches O'Houlihan
Aug 7, 2006
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Tustin, CA
I'm on lockdown until D day. I actually get the Matt Hammil thing a lot.

My nephew has a Strider and kills it already on that thing. I'm going to either buy/build one first thing for my kid.
 

kazlx

Patches O'Houlihan
Aug 7, 2006
6,985
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Tustin, CA
The newest Monkey. My wife is a champ. Delivered in under an hour with no epidural. My newest best friend: