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Time for a new phase i guess

lovebunny

lovebunny

can i lick your balls?
Dec 14, 2003
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So annette and I decided last night to call it quits.

we realized over the last couple of months that we had just gotten into a cycle of hurting each other and holding resentment. we lost sight of our friendship and got caught up in "us". with some events that happened over the last couple weeks we were so close to "starting over" and "making it work". then we realized that is the same cycle we have been in for 6 years and nothing has changed.

so we decided to break up, it really is the only way to crush our issues. we each need to work on our personal identities and figure out what we want. im hoping in this time we can continue our friendship because she is my best friend. i am just so torn up because everything about this is screaming to me not to do it, yet i know its the right decision.

I am in my 2nd year of A&P school now and i think im just going to focus 100% on that. im going to get out and ride more. i dont know how else to cope with it. I dont know why im posting this. i think i just want to get it out.
 
kazlx

kazlx

Patches O'Houlihan
Aug 7, 2006
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I dated a chick for six years. It sucked breaking up. Now a way better chick that I married and we have a kid. Don't stay in a relationship because you feel obligated. It's not going to magically just get better.
 
jimmydean

jimmydean

The Official Meat of Ridemonkey
Sep 10, 2001
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kazlx said:
Don't stay in a relationship because you feel obligated. It's not going to magically just get better.
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We tried because of the kid, but the reality is the kid is better off with us split. It's never to late to call it quits and as suck as it might be, the result is often better.
 
lovebunny

lovebunny

can i lick your balls?
Dec 14, 2003
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conclusion after day one. i feel apprehensively optimistic. i dont know what will happen tomorrow but it sure as hell is going to be different than today. im trying my hardest to not see this as a bad thing and to remember i am doing this for myself
 
spocomptonrider

spocomptonrider

sportin' the CROCS
Nov 30, 2007
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My gf of 2 years just broke up with me. It's been a struggle to get out of bed each morning but the more time I have to reflect the more I realize that it was never meant to be. Its hard because I still love her, but the feeling is not mutual. Life goes on I suppose.
 
lovebunny

lovebunny

can i lick your balls?
Dec 14, 2003
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San Diego, California, United States
so now i have to be out of my apartment when our lease is up. my property manager called me and told me that since annette painted the walls after they told her not to they are not going to let us renew our lease. i tried telling her that we are now broken up and i can repaint the walls but she didnt want to hear it. pretty pissed off
 
Brian HCM#1

Brian HCM#1

MMMMMMMMM BEER!!!!!!!!!!
Sep 7, 2001
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spocomptonrider said:
My gf of 2 years just broke up with me. It's been a struggle to get out of bed each morning but the more time I have to reflect the more I realize that it was never meant to be. Its hard because I still love her, but the feeling is not mutual. Life goes on I suppose.
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A quote a friend said to me while in high school after my girlfriend bailed on my ass. I told him I was totally depressed and he told me......"Dude, there's more fish" Just four simple words, and he was right. There were BETTER fish.
 
JohnE

JohnE

filthy rascist
May 13, 2005
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Front Range, dude...
You get out with your sanity (relatively) intact...you win. SD has a HUGE % of hot women...if you have any game or desire you will be fine. Don't mope, move on...
 
lovebunny

lovebunny

can i lick your balls?
Dec 14, 2003
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San Diego, California, United States
so i was talking to my father about everything today. the first thing he said to me after i finished telling him all the **** thats happened in the last week is "what is the first thing you do when there is an emergency on your airplane?"

to which i responded "fly the airplane"

and he said "exactly".

that totally put everything in persective for me. and now i dont feel nearly as bad. you gotta love fathers haha
 
skibunny24

skibunny24

Enthusiastic Receiver of Reputation
Jun 16, 2010
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lovebunny said:
so i was talking to my father about everything today. the first thing he said to me after i finished telling him all the **** thats happened in the last week is "what is the first thing you do when there is an emergency on your airplane?"

to which i responded "fly the airplane"

and he said "exactly".

that totally put everything in persective for me. and now i dont feel nearly as bad. you gotta love fathers haha
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That is true wisdom. Go dad!
 
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