Lots piled up outside the door up here. But first, coffee.
Skiing fresh snow for a while.
I think I may have found a career path forward I don't hate. I feel oddly excited about it.
Today should be mellow, I would love to pre-ride my commute path but I'm not sure the weather nor time will hold out.
There are some good meetings out there! I look back on my days of 90 in 90 with fondness. I used to hit 10 meetings a week, doubling up Thursday, Friday, Saturday because those were the hardest nights! The meetings here in Yakima are sketchy as fuck though! HahaMorning Monkeys.
Went to a cool meeting last night. I know it sounds bad, but the stories I hear always make my bullshit seem really small. Yes I just took a 20% pay cut in hopes my company stays afloat. What I didn't do was drive drunk and have a head on with another car that resulted in the death of a child. Holy fuck, I can't even imagine. But I've also never driven drunk, so there is that.
Talk about perspective, wow. But it is also really cool to hear about how someone has dealt with that and what they are doing for amends. That shit is pretty encouraging.
Yeah, the meetings here in town are sketchy, the wife goes downtown at least once a week, but she is now in charge of a zoom meeting that averages 40+ folks a night. About a dozen of them were there last night for her 2 year coin. I've gone to a couple of the speaker meetings and I'm always impressed.There are some good meetings out there! I look back on my days of 90 in 90 with fondness. I used to hit 10 meetings a week, doubling up Thursday, Friday, Saturday because those were the hardest nights! The meetings here in Yakima are sketchy as fuck though! Haha
cheaper than kids.Holy shit, we are actually doing a budgets and we are spending $200 a month on average for our 2 dogs and a cat, not including vet bills. That's food, treats, meds, and shit bags.
i know someone who doesn't.It took me a couple of reading to figure out that the meetings were AA. I went to one where my friend got her one year chip ( I was the inspiration to get sober. she figured if I could get straight so could she). I never went to a meeting before or since. Than stuff just isn't my cup of tea. Been sober since July 10th 1981. It just depends on how badly you want to get straight so hang in there guys
I believe the current average is around $300-400k for one child to the age of 18.Not by much.
Certainly easier to deal with.
Yeah, I've been trying to convince my boy that a vasectomy is a cheaper alternative to another child. He is struggling to afford the 2 he has, yet they are considering the possibility of another because reasons.I believe the current average is around $300-400k for one child to the age of 18.
When my daughter was born, an old friend told me, if you have a boy you only have to worry about one dick, if you have a girl, you have to worry about all the dicks, lolYeah, I've been trying to convince my boy that a vasectomy is a cheaper alternative to another child. He is struggling to afford the 2 he has, yet they are considering the possibility of another because reasons.
For an "normal" middle class household, we factor $1k/m when doing retirement budget planning. Ie. dollars not necessary in retirement.Not by much.
Certainly easier to deal with.
It took me a couple of reading to figure out that the meetings were AA. I went to one where my friend got her one year chip ( I was the inspiration to get sober. she figured if I could get straight so could she). I never went to a meeting before or since. Than stuff just isn't my cup of tea. Been sober since July 10th 1981. It just depends on how badly you want to get straight so hang in there guys
This is not in any way helpful, encouraging, or inspiring.It took me a couple of reading to figure out that the meetings were AA. I went to one where my friend got her one year chip ( I was the inspiration to get sober. she figured if I could get straight so could she). I never went to a meeting before or since. Than stuff just isn't my cup of tea. Been sober since July 10th 1981. It just depends on how badly you want to get straight so hang in there guys
Quitting is not easy. But it comes down to how bad do you want it and how honest you are to yourself. No one is going to take the drink out of your hand,, the straw out of your nose, the needle out of your arm for you, you have to say I'm a fuck up and I am not going to stay this way. Then you have to make that radical lifestyle change. Don't hang out with people you went and got wasted with. clean out all of the alcohol, dugs, and paraphernalia from your house and life. know that pain will be involved but be determined to not crumble and win over/ inspite of the pain. You can't ever again just have one. It doesn't get easier to say no because you forget how bad the pain was. That's my life. yours may or may not be similar. I can't sit in a room of people telling stories with them smoking cigarettes and stay addicted to nicotine and wonder why they can't get straight. You have to walk away from everything. I chose a path that is mine alone. it was and is still painful but that path is why I am still alive today.This is not in any way helpful, encouraging, or inspiring.