I'm like your wife in that sense except that I do know how to access our finances somewhat. Then again I am married to a CPA with a masters in tax and I know how much she spends on horses
Constantly amazed that my wife puts 100% faith in me to handle the family finances. She hasn't the foggiest how much money we have or where it is. I could have squandered it all on Pokémon figurines or Yu-Gi-Oh cards and she'd be none the wiser.
I haven't, of course, but that level of unknowing doesn't seem healthy.
so much snot.......Humph
We're kind of the opposite. My wife tells me "we have money" or "we don't have money" and I pretty much take her word for it. I mean, I do take a passing interest and generally have a notion of our financial trajectory, but the day-to-day stuff? No clue, and I honestly prefer it that way.
Constantly amazed that my wife puts 100% faith in me to handle the family finances. She hasn't the foggiest how much money we have or where it is. I could have squandered it all on Pokémon figurines or Yu-Gi-Oh cards and she'd be none the wiser.
I haven't, of course, but that level of unknowing doesn't seem healthy.
my wife is 100% checked out from our finances as well. I do have a spreadsheet shared with her that has all our insurance policies, account numbers, etc. laid out so that she could figure it out were I to suddenly kick the bucket for some reason.Constantly amazed that my wife puts 100% faith in me to handle the family finances.
A buddy of mine's dad had the same sort of "master spreadsheet". Then he got hacked and his identity stolen. Some things are best not loaded to the aether... fwiw.my wife is 100% checked out from our finances as well. I do have a spreadsheet shared with her that has all our insurance policies, account numbers, etc. laid out so that she could figure it out were I to suddenly kick the bucket for some reason.
I should make sure that's updated, now that I think of it.
/me is WFH today. already dropped Baby Aya off and went to PT. time to do some actual work now.
I have all sorts of my data entrusted to Google Docs. and phone app based 2FA. I'm ok with that risk.A buddy of mine's dad had the same sort of "master spreadsheet". Then he got hacked and his identity stolen. Some things are best not loaded to the aether... fwiw.
Same. All of the policies and such are in the safe deposit box, so she can grab a sheet and be ready to start. I have a buddy (CFP) who I trust to take care of her and the kids that she knows and knows to step in. And everything is on auto-pay, so nothing will go *boom* and become an issue while she's dealing with shit.my wife is 100% checked out from our finances as well. I do have a spreadsheet shared with her that has all our insurance policies, account numbers, etc. laid out so that she could figure it out were I to suddenly kick the bucket for some reason.
holy shit, you've been back in the old world for 5 years now?!Last official day of employment and I had to hand in the company car. It was a bit sad as the Volvo has been a super nice car for the last 5 years. I am still not sad I lost the job and sure I will find something better and a better car too!
Actually 6 years. I have actually really been missing the States lately. Maybe I'll move back.holy shit, you've been back in the old world for 5 years now?!
Sorry dude.I rode Apex this morning, hot as balls but fun was had.
Lost another friend to cancer last night, 2nd friend in 2 weeks, she was only 37. Fuck cancer.
have a great day people.
Dude.......I rode Apex this morning, hot as balls but fun was had.
Lost another friend to cancer last night, 2nd friend in 2 weeks, she was only 37. Fuck cancer.
have a great day people.
The safe deposit box is a good tool for such things.All of the policies and such are in the safe deposit box, so she can grab a sheet and be ready to start.
Sorry for your loss dude. Fuck Cancer !!!I rode Apex this morning, hot as balls but fun was had.
Lost another friend to cancer last night, 2nd friend in 2 weeks, she was only 37. Fuck cancer.
have a great day people.
Time to get the tuxedo cleanedI got a call from the Oregon Bowlers Association, they have raised $650 to be split 3 ways between the 3 local VFW's and I'm supposed to do a photo op with an oversized Ed McMahon check.
The rockstar lifestyle of a VFW Quartermaster.