Hello All--
Well, after 11 straight days of casino work, the wife and I are off, and maybe just in time, since we're supposed to get heaps of snow by the weekend. We'll see, as I'm still betting the under against the weatherman's report.
So I drop wifey off at home, and go out for my daily visit with Alaina. Good news is-- on the way out, I see the wild horses that are in the area, and get a peaceful feeling, like Alaina is giving me a sign. I get out to her site, and notice her "toys" are missing. I get worried, and as I get closer, I see the site next to her has been dug out for a "new neighbor", which explains why her toys are missing (so the guy could dig). Needless to say, I don't know if I should be pissed because we weren't called about the site being bought and given first chance, or happy because Alaina has someone next to her, or what. You see, it was always planned that when our time came, wifey and I would be on Alaina's sides, just like when we would go to sleep in bed (Mommy on Alaina's right, me on left, though what would've been Mommy's site is extra-long [she's 5'6"-haha], and I'm in the cremation site).
I left a message with the lady who manages the grounds, asking why we weren't at least called, and to see if Alaina could be moved so we can be together when that time comes. If she can be moved, I'm doing whatever I can to help move her, and immediately buying the sites on either side, maybe doing a payment plan.
I ask that if you reply, please be delicate, because I am right now, and wife is in tears. Remember, February is Alaina's 5th angelversary. If you're going to let it rip, please pm me. I'd rather read it in private.
Thank you for letting me voice......................
Shawn
Well, after 11 straight days of casino work, the wife and I are off, and maybe just in time, since we're supposed to get heaps of snow by the weekend. We'll see, as I'm still betting the under against the weatherman's report.
So I drop wifey off at home, and go out for my daily visit with Alaina. Good news is-- on the way out, I see the wild horses that are in the area, and get a peaceful feeling, like Alaina is giving me a sign. I get out to her site, and notice her "toys" are missing. I get worried, and as I get closer, I see the site next to her has been dug out for a "new neighbor", which explains why her toys are missing (so the guy could dig). Needless to say, I don't know if I should be pissed because we weren't called about the site being bought and given first chance, or happy because Alaina has someone next to her, or what. You see, it was always planned that when our time came, wifey and I would be on Alaina's sides, just like when we would go to sleep in bed (Mommy on Alaina's right, me on left, though what would've been Mommy's site is extra-long [she's 5'6"-haha], and I'm in the cremation site).
I left a message with the lady who manages the grounds, asking why we weren't at least called, and to see if Alaina could be moved so we can be together when that time comes. If she can be moved, I'm doing whatever I can to help move her, and immediately buying the sites on either side, maybe doing a payment plan.
I ask that if you reply, please be delicate, because I am right now, and wife is in tears. Remember, February is Alaina's 5th angelversary. If you're going to let it rip, please pm me. I'd rather read it in private.
Thank you for letting me voice......................
Shawn