Same with me. I like the idea of taking time off but I don't know what I would do with it, if I would do anything worthwhile and if that would help me decide anything or (more likely) just kill some time and give me a few good stories.Morryjg said:I think a couple years off between high school and college would have served me well. Although, I don't know that I would have figured out what I wanted to do. I still really don't know what I want to do when I 'grow up' except be retired.
only problem with that is:SkaredShtles said:I think a more realistic option would be to get college out of the way (on the 'rents dime) and THEN take a year or two off.
I don't know. I didn't. I figure that alot of kids probably get to go on their parent's dime. Maybe I'm wrong?the Inbred said:only problem with that is:
how many people can go to college on the parent's dime?
I was fortunate - decent job for most of my college career, a couple scholarships. No student loans.in texas, anyway, you have 6 months after graduation to find a job and start paying off student loans.
After graduating high school, and I went to school, I failed out with FLYING colors because of the fact that I didnt have my head on straight. My 'rents were pissed, but I convinced them that I should still continue to go, and for the next two years, I continued to screw around and got crappy grades. At this point, I decided that school wasn't the best thing for me, so I started bartending full time, and thought it was the greatest thing ever. It was a hell of a lifestyle, and I practically wore a hole in my nasal septum due to a good hookup and staying up for days on end. After about a year and a half of this, I could feel my brain leaking out of my ear every time I cocked my head, so I figured it was time for me to go out and get an education. Four years later I got a BS in Geographic Science from James Madison University.Ridemonkey said:I think every kid should tak one or two years off after HS and experience life.
If that's the case, come up to Steamboat and take some classes here during your "time of thinking." There's a 2 year engineering program starting up this coming fall at CMC-Alpine Campus, gear'd to transfer to Boulder. It'll get your math up to speed, it's cheaper than CU, and (trust me on this) the instruction is MUCH MORE person to person. You'll get a good solid background in Physics and Calc in a much more intimate classroom than the 300+ student forum classes at CU.TheInedibleHulk said:Thats what Im thinking. I give about 6.7% percent effort. I have about a 3.0, I could get all A's with a little effort but I just dont give a crap. School has always been cake for me, I thought college might actaully be a challenge but even my upper level classes have been pretty damn easy. I dont mind working hard, in fact I prefer it when I can see some fruits of my labor, but with school I just dont see any point right now.
Dood, I'm totally serious about coming up here (Steamboat) vs. Boulder. You can find cheaper rent, do more fun things to keep in balance, and taste the math needed for engineering. If you need to, I'll put you up for a day or two so you can get a feel for the town/school/activities. It just can't happen this weekend as I need to go down to D town and visit that hotel I was just offered a job at.TheInedibleHulk said:So I proposed taking some time off to the pops and he did nothing but skirt the issue for an hour and a half. While he didnt directly say it, the answer was no, so I guess I'm gonna go on doing more of the same overpriced bullsh1t. It doesnt make a damn bit of sense but my parents are so god damn conventional and conservative that anything thats not the norm is out of the question. Im also just a litle pissed becasue I was actaully candid and open with my dad for once and all I got was more of the same bs I always get. My dad is a good guy but he's too careful and conservative for his own good, and he'll never be decisive on anything.
Did you propose that you do it all on your own dime *AND* that when you went back to school you'd do *that* on your own as well? You know, you are an adult now.......... (I'm assuming)TheInedibleHulk said:So I proposed taking some time off to the pops and he did nothing but skirt the issue for an hour and a half. While he didnt directly say it, the answer was no, so I guess I'm gonna go on doing more of the same overpriced bullsh1t. <snip> My dad is a good guy but he's too careful and conservative for his own good, and he'll never be decisive on anything.
Yeah that was the whole idea. If I support myself completely in CO for a year I can get in state tuition, which is about half of out of state.SkaredShtles said:Did you propose that you do it all on your own dime *AND* that when you went back to school you'd do *that* on your own as well? You know, you are an adult now.......... (I'm assuming)
Dude - becoming a parent in and of itself *makes* you more conservative. Cut him some slack.
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Whoa. You're fokked.TheInedibleHulk said:Yeah that was the whole idea. If I support myself completely in CO for a year I can get in state tuition, which is about half of out of state.
That's true, but you don't know my dad, he's a hardcore conservative duke educated doctor with an MD and a PhD.
Woohoo! Beer *AND* bike money!!Pau11y said:<snip> I managed to come up w/ $10K of free money for Mines.
I don't drink that much so I "can" do w/o the beer. But w/ today's gas prices, and my liking to drive, I need money to fuel the friggin' auto. Auto getz me to places where I can ride my habitsSkaredShtles said:Woohoo! Beer *AND* bike money!!
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BTW - I agree with Pau11y. It's *your* life. Not everyone is cut out for the conservative life. Cut the lifeline. Leggo the teat.
That's one way to go. It has almost limitless opportunities. For some people, it's the ONLY way.SkaredShtles said:Whoa. You're fokked.
Here's an idea - pull yourself off the teat and do what you want. Like I said, you *are* an adult now.
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Just wait until you're within walking/riding distance of Golden City Brewery.......Pau11y said:I don't drink that much so I "can" do w/o the beer.
This is exactly what I did. I realized my Junior year of college that I just wanted it to be over with, so I hunkered down and "survived" the final two years. Then came "the rest of my life" which has been alot of fun.Fathead said:That's one way to go. It has almost limitless opportunities. For some people, it's the ONLY way.
Keep in mind, though, that wrapping up an undergrad degree, and taking some time off for some fun, are not mutually exclusive. In the 4 yrs it took to get mine, I think I put about 8wks of real work into it. There was lots of time for recreation, travel, and p/t jobs to rack up experience and fun-money. If school is such a breeze, and you can crank out that 3.0 productivity for however many more years, why not go ahead and get it under your belt?
2-3 yrs from now, w/the degree done, you will still have your youth.
blue said:My parents let me live under their roof as long as I'm a student, but from hearing all of this, I'm considering taking a year off. How am I going to approach them about this idea...?