both events were in the exact same section of trail, which really seemed to eat her up, both were over the bars, wheel turned, all weight coming down on the one side of the bars, more likely to two really similar unfortunate crashes than any concern over the stem being the problem.Sounds pretty crazy, clearly your wife is the real MVP.
It looks like the Havoc is about the widest you can get so maybe a contributor, but it's not that much wider than the others really so maybe just unlucky crashes.
I decided the ANVL was still the best of the bunch for me and emailed them a few questions before ordering, but no reply after 7 days. Re-sent this morning, will see how it goes.
So, another Easton, Raceface, or a different bar this time around?