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  1. LordOpie

    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    I'm not talking about threesomes.

    Can you juggle?

    Don't hate the player, hate the game?

    Tell me a funny story about mixing up facts or calling someone else's name out.
     
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  2. johnbryanpeters

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    Get some morals. We could discuss petty theft next. :blah:
     
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    Konabumm Konaboner

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    a few years ago I was dating one gal and messing around with another one on the side. So in the middle of sex the girl I was dating asked me to say her name and I said the other chicks name.

    Well sex ended along with the dating.

    I pretty much call everyone honey now
     
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  4. LordOpie

    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    that story was weak.

    Did you get slapped? Did she freak? Did you try to explain?

    Where's Old_Dude when you need some entertainment?
     
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  5. SuzyCreamcheese

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    I was hoping this was about 3somes.

    The Cheese
     
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    I could help you out. :devil:
     
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  7. Westy

    Westy the teste

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    No one want to hear about your Friday nights with a goat and a pig.
     
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  8. LordOpie

    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    speak for yourself.
     
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    stosh Darth Bailer

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    Actually I motion for this topic to be about Threesomes.

    Do I hear a second?
     
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  10. SuzyCreamcheese

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    I thought those were with a sheep and a hermaphrodite midget.

    The Cheese
     
  11. SkaredShtles

    SkaredShtles I love NEWCASTLE and will ONLY drink NEWCASTLE!!!!

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    I never dated more than one girl at a time. I valued my life too much, I guess. :p
     
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    stosh Darth Bailer

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    The hardest part of dating 2 people at once was when they would "swing by to say hi".

    Timing got difficult then.
     
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    bluebug32 Asshat

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    For some reason, Rob doesn't like it when I bring other guys home. He's so old-fashioned :rolleyes: :p

    Plus, I only have a double bed ;)
     
  14. LordOpie

    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    eh, I don't value my life, but I do value my sanity.

    I'm not sure how to do it. I mean, I mix up facts about the two different women and am afraid that I'll show up at the other's house for a date when I'm scheduled to be with the other one.

    I guess I'm just too dumb :(

    Do I cut one lose?

    Lose for Loco.
     
  15. Brian HCM#1

    Brian HCM#1 MMMMMMMMM BEER!!!!!!!!!!

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    Juggling was easy back in the day. We used to call them "Ball clubs" That was when you date 3 or more women. After the initial few dates you would know what "batting order" to date them in. Some girls were only worthy of "weekday status" while others would sometimes earn a Saturday night spot. Fridays were dudes night to search for more women and potential one nighters. There were many times I'd lose ALL girls in my ball club, then would have to rebuild. All in all very fun to do, I would ALWAYS state before anything that might happen between a girl and I, I didn't want a girlfriend and just wanted to date. It clears you from being a total asshole when they start to expect more:devil:
     
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    stosh Darth Bailer

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    So bring home women.
     
  17. hooples3

    hooples3 Fuggetaboutit!

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    threesome can only be with two other random people.. or peoplet hat are just friends .. because even thoug people say the arent going to get hurt... it will wind up happening. trust me on this one.
    when you have a 3-some... make it with no body you plan on knowing
     
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    I can barely deal with one chick at a time. But back in college I dated 5 chicks, at different times, that all lived in the same house. Interestingly before dating any of them I had to walk naked through their place after losing a bet. I guess it pays to advertise.
     
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    bluebug32 Asshat

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    Well, if the size of those horns are any indication....

    ;)
     
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    It's much easier when it works out that you can date 2 girls at the same time with the same first name. A simple phone call and a wrong name can get you in trouble otherwise.

    If you are early on in the dating, date them both until you decide which one you like better or are most compatable with.
     
  21. Westy

    Westy the teste

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    On a date it is probably a good idea to go outside or to the bathroom when passing gas.
     
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    That's why Brodie thought he got dumped. :think:
     
  23. LordOpie

    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    And how far do you take the physical with both women while in the deciding phase?
     
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    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    saw it again recently and while it's good, I have to say, I think it's the weakest of the series. *shrugs* sorry.
     
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    Of course it's only a problem when the monogamy is implied.

    The Cheese
     
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    Dating is just that...dating. I've dated several women at once in the past. (no, not on the same date) You've only got problems if you've established some sort of exclusivity with at least one of them. Of course, all that goes out the window if you've slept with one of them or told one of them you loved them in an attempt to get them into bed. Either of those render any non-exclusivity, verbal or implied, moot and your ass is hers.
     
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    stevew unique white person

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    friends work.
     
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    manhattanprjkt83 Rusty Trombone

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    this thread is awesome, i never really "dated" a couple girls at once, just had a couple "around"...Like mentioned above, it is just dating, realistically this thing can only last for so long. Soon the chick will start getting all clingly and want to take up every second of your time, then you dont know what to tell the otherone. Bottom line you are going to end up looking like an asshole to 1 or both of them at some point...One thing i ALWAYS do is overlap gf's you gots ta gots ta do that...:thumb:
     
  29. stevew

    stevew unique white person

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    How often did you rotate your batting order?

    Did you have a DH? One for when the rest of the team wasn't ready?
     
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    Holy crap... stoney is around again?
     
  31. LordOpie

    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    so noted.
     
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    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    I thought the DH was your hand?

    Man, I'm so out of the loop.
     
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    douglas Chocolate Milk Doug

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    does it count if one is your wife?
     
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    SkaredShtles I love NEWCASTLE and will ONLY drink NEWCASTLE!!!!

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    :eek:

    Wow - back in the day I guess I never had time for that stuff. I was always riding, skiing, mountaineering, and backpacking. :thumb:
     
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    That's the million dollar question. It's a tough call with no clear answer. One thing for sure, it's better to have 2 good women to choose from then any number of "bad" ones, or none at all.



    Hopefully this post doesn't get corrupted by the forum software like the last one. :dead:
     
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    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    "If I had a million dollars, I'd get two chicks to double up on me." ~ Office Space
     
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    DHS Friendly Neighborhood Pool Boy

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    why date?

    why not just some friends with sprinkles.

    how about just nothing at all and lots of friends.

    no drama would be best, but will never happen.
     
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    Brian HCM#1 MMMMMMMMM BEER!!!!!!!!!!

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    It depended on who I liked and who didn't get on my nerve, some that would get the weekend date would then be moved to weekday status if they were getting to difficult to deal with, but was fun to score with, some I'd keep them around till they got sick of me and the games I played. A lot would be based on how I felt and who I wanted to see. I would always have a few on the back burner to call if the girls I were dating were all busy at once. Most of the girls lasted between 1-4 months, then off to building a new team.
     
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    douglas Chocolate Milk Doug

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    sprinkles ?
     
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