dating multiple people?
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robdamanii said:
how is cheating if your just dating them?
Assuming you're committed to one person, not just dating them.douglas said:
homeslice, check the thread titlerobdamanii said:
Cheatin on someone that you have an exclusive arrangement with (solid, trusting relationship) is different than if you are dating more than one person who is aware of that fact. Different things work for different people. I believe that I have never cheated on a woman in my life, meaning I haven't betrayed someone's trust in a monogamous relationship. If it wasn't working, I would break up with them or they with me. That being said, I haven't had too many "girlfriends" like that. To me, dating is for getting to know people to decide if you want something more serious and exclusive. Once you decide to go down that path, do it all the way or not all. Don't eff around with people's emotions, it'll come back to bite you in the end.robdamanii said:
i used to date this girl last year who has an identical twin sister. we dated and messed around for a few months on and off and then this year i started mesisng around with her sister. well one night in the midst of doin the dirty i called her her sisters name and she fraked out and punched me in the face. had a nice little shinner from that for a week. but hey its all good cuz now im fooling around with the original one again. when im drunk every girl is babe.
Who said anything about cheating? I would never cheat on someone I was exclusive with in anyway. We were bsing about casual relationships.robdamanii said:
committed relationships are the best for sure, but there is something to be said (since it makes for better e-copy) about the other side of the coin. Stop pretending to be "that guy" you know there was a time in your life that you were wishing to be banging a different piece of booty every night of the week. (and in some cases more then 1robdamanii said:
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Some people treat relationships like amusement aprks - they want to get in as many different rides in one day as they can!LordOpie said:
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Yay - a dating thread brings Stoney out of retirement. woohoo
Ah. I missed the BSing part.Mtb_Rob_FL said:Who said anything about cheating? I would never cheat on someone I was exclusive with in anyway. We were bsing about casual relationships.
committed relationships are the best for sure, but there is something to be said (since it makes for better e-copy) about the other side of the coin. Stop pretending to be "that guy" you know there was a time in your life that you were wishing to be banging a different piece of booty every night of the week. (and in some cases more then 1
Never said that there's anything wrong with dating multiple women at the same time. It's just not my style really. The only thing I've noted from friends of mine doing that has been that women tend to freak out if they don't know about the other squeeze (as it seems people have been saying; keeping them apart is critical).
Unfortunately, I don't believe you. If this were really a true Stoney tail (sic) then shouldn't one of thesse Skadoo's be a threesome with twins, making it a 4Skadoo day for ya?stoney98 said:
LordOpie said:
As we like to say in the car biznaaasss....
You don't trade in your car to walk do ya?
I wouldn't put too much stock into what Dextreme is talkin' 'bout - he's from Montana. Those 'twins' he's talkin' about could be cloned sheep! Or worse yet, angry inbred militants!todbanner said:That is the best story on this thread!
now all we need is a follow up telling us that you're fooling around with both of them... and that you're doing them at the same time!!!
*bows down*
Sadly, FT, I have too many years behind me to be considered such.Full Trucker said:
That is very nice to wake up too, but I'd rather wake up to a beautiful woman naked in my bed.SkaredShtles said:I like to camp and I'm a cheap bahstid. Both are very bad when it comes to dating, I learned. I could live with that.
Anyways - mornings like this always made it seem not so boring.
Did you notice that he said that he screws his buddies?loco said:
Lots of wisdom from He Who Seeks More Cowbell today.Full Trucker said:
Some of you seem to think there is a universal definition of dating vs. boyfriend and girlfriend or whatever but I don't think so. If you assume the other person feels the same way as you, you either don't care if they get hurt or don't have the cajones to bring it up, and either way it's pretty lame. You can play the field without hurting people, and it's usually more fun that way anyway.
Dude, at 23 you should be having the time of your life dating different girls and having fun. You only get one crack at life, don't miss out on the fun stuff. Before you know it you'll be in your 40's watching all the pretty girls running around and thinking.......damn I really missed out. Look to settle down when you hit 30+ so that gives you 7 years of having fun. You shouldn't talk about past relationships and how they failed, you were only in high school, thats all training replationships. You hit the real ones from your mid 20's on.robdamanii said:
Actually I would rather wake up to that with a beautiful woman in my tent!! Morning skadoo with a view!!!!Brian HCM#1 said:
Um, they failed in college.Brian HCM#1 said:
And thanks dad. If I'm happy, why bother throw away something I'm happy with just to stick anything in a skirt?
Exactly, I would ALWAYS be up front on where I stood with relationships, they new I was dating others. I would never rub it in another girls face I was going out on a date with someone else.OGRipper said:
Or on your tentOGRipper said:Actually I would rather wake up to that with a beautiful woman in my tent!! Morning skadoo with a view!!!!
Trust me with this one my son, I know what I'm talking about. At 23 what are you throwing away? You're just starting to have fun at your age.robdamanii said:
Well unless they askedLordOpie said:
Didn't really catch that one, thats funny.
Ho hum. To each their own.Brian HCM#1 said:
I can have plenty of fun by going down to the Flats and drinking with my buddies, withOUT screwing some random chick.
This whole thing is not just about sex. I've dated lots of girls and never slept with them. It's called DATING.robdamanii said:
Variety is the spice of life, my man.Brian HCM#1 said:
That's good too.OGRipper said:Actually I would rather wake up to that with a beautiful woman in my tent!! Morning skadoo with a view!!!!
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Uhm - you keep telling yourself that, Chief.Brian HCM#1 said:
I actually hated dating. I thought the whole thing sucked. I lucked out when I met my wife.Brian HCM#1 said:
I knew a dude whose claim to fame was dropping one girl off at the airport in the same trip as picking a different one up. He actually managed to schedule their flights so it worked out...
I've always enjoyed dating & meeting new people.SkaredShtles said:I actually hated dating. I thought the whole thing sucked. I lucked out when I met my wife.
That kicks ass!!!!!Barbaton said:
Maybe you can introduce them to each other.... if they dig each other, you score BIG!LordOpie said:eh, I don't value my life, but I do value my sanity.
I'm not sure how to do it. I mean, I mix up facts about the two different women and am afraid that I'll show up at the other's house for a date when I'm scheduled to be with the other one.
I guess I'm just too dumb
Do I cut one lose?
Lose for Loco.
you are obviously not worthy of the terms "cocksman".SkaredShtles said:
Wow - back in the day I guess I never had time for that stuff. I was always riding, skiing, mountaineering, and backpacking.
winger, warrant, and poison stopped touring, so brian stopped going out to clubs.DHS said:
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