that IS my whole point. don't make the child pay for your accident. both of my kids are "accidents", will they ever know that? NO! i accepted the fact that i screwed up but i'm not going to make the kids pay for my mistake. i'll have to make some SACRIFICES in my life plan but now that i have the kids (well, one's still in the oven)....it's definitely worth it.Originally posted by gecko
I think the ROOT of the problem is that people can somehow call having and raising a child as a consequence!
It should be a blessing.
How is someone going to raise a child properly if they see them as a consequence, or burden, or repercussion, for some "terrible" act they committed?
so the whole thing comes down to, "you've got to pay to play".
this nation is like a bunch of whiny 2 yr olds who's sole purpose in life is the acquisition of personal gain. "mine! mine! mine!"