Wait a second, I have a nice guy facade?mack said:I have the impression that behind Zark's nice guy facade he will most likely bite your tounge out.
Tounge biting is reserved for the ladies anyways :love:
Wait a second, I have a nice guy facade?mack said:I have the impression that behind Zark's nice guy facade he will most likely bite your tounge out.
I was going to keep my opinion to myself that dex is a total chicken**** for not stepping up here. But I guess I just let it slip.llkoolkeg said:On the one hand, I can see why dex would want to stay out of it, but he should also bear in mind- when you choose your friends, you choose your enemies.
"A man is known by the books he reads, by the company he keeps, by the praise he gives, by his dress, by his tastes, by his distastes, by the stories he tells, by his gait, by the notion of his eye, by the look of his house, of his chamber; for nothing on earth is solitary but every thing hath affinities infinite." ---Ralph Waldo Emerson
Echo said:I was going to keep my opinion to myself that dex is a total chicken**** for not stepping up here. But I guess I just let it slip.
Zark said:Wait a second, I have a nice guy facade?
Tounge biting is reserved for the ladies anyways :love:
Sorry man. Generally I consider you to be a stand up dude around here. I was pretty surprised that you just consider this to be "not your problem". If it was someone I knew and rode with, it wouldn't technically be "my problem" either, but I would at least stand up like a man and tell that person I think they have done something wrong. Kind of like I'm standing up to you right now. All your e-buddies can smooch your butt here and roll their eyes at me, I couldn't care less. I'll be in your area in about 2 weeks if you think I have committed some horrendous crime by voicing my opinion about this and you would like to discuss further.dexterq20 said:Very mature, Echo. Very mature.
Normally I would agree with you: I hate anybody who would attempt to swindle a fellow rider, regardless. But Ben really did all he could to rectify the situation, and I don't think its cool for you guys to rag on him without full knowledge of this.Echo said:All your e-buddies can smooch your butt here and roll their eyes at me, I couldn't care less.
I don't consider you an asshole. I just think that comment was rather uncalled for, and somewhat characteristic of an asshole.Echo said:Edit: I must have missed the part where you said you stood up to him. I stand corrected. You can still consider me an asshole though, you have no idea how little that concerns me
From your original post, it didn't sound like you bothered to say a damn word to him about it. If you say you told him he should trade back, that's about all any of us can expect from you. Like I said, before about 2 minutes ago, as far as anyone here knew, you hadn't said anything to him about it. Which would be about the same thing as saying you think he did the right thing.dexterq20 said:I don't consider you an asshole. I just think that comment was rather uncalled for, and somewhat characteristic of an asshole.
Now honestly, if you were in my position, what would you do? Seriously, answer that. Everybody keeps saying "Do something! Do something!"... but what? If you can answer that question, maybe I'll have an opportunity to be this so-called "stand up guy" that everyone keeps talking about.
Umm....Echo said:From your original post, it didn't sound like you bothered to say a damn word to him about it.
dexterq20 said:I have talked with Gordon already, and there is nothing I can do to make him give the bike back.
Maybe its time mail fraud charges were filed if we know for sure that he's not planning on doing anything. I dunno, that's what I'd be doing if I was in this situation.dexterq20 said:<snip>.
Not to mention Ben could have to face the school administration of Gordon decided to do anything about being beat up or with the theft of 'his' bike...Curb Hucker said:You all must realize Ben is in an extremely bad situation. He has to go to school with this kid. If he does steal the bike back or do something bad to him, Ben is gonna have to put up with this guys crap all the time. Revenge is a bitch and I dont think Ben wants any coming his way from only a short walk away.
I know. i was just saying it in addition to Don's statement that we shouldn't be so hard on Ben because he is in a rough spot and we shouldn't expect him to do much more than he has, as well as if he did do something he'd have a lot of possible consequences from it.Echo said:Well I for one never said anything about dex stealing the bike or beating Gordon's ass. If he told the dude he thinks he's wrong, he's done all he can be expected to do.
i have to ask...did you do that on purpose?mack said:No i think your the only tool who really cares about spelling. But ill keep it in mind if you ever rip me off.
Being the nice guy is admirable. But you are going to end up short in the end. I too am one of the type that doesnt like to confront the tough situations. But you need to decide if this guy being a criminal and scamming YOU is worth not standing up for yourself. If it's worth it, stop posting and tell everyone the situation is taken care of. But if you want this to be right, do what you must do. File the report. Let him know you did. Make a statement that you don't want people to steal or beat on your behalf. Keep it clean and hope you come out on the other side with a bike.korked7 said:dexterq20 has done all he can do and thats cool of him. Its between Gordon and I. I'd like to get the Cortina replaced because i've wanted 1 for a long time. It'd b nice if he would pay for the bullit so i could atleast scrap 300 buck together (anyone wanna donate??). Then i'd have the bike ive wanted for years. If he doesnt i'd like to get my bullit back. Alot of my friends from here are saying I should get him for mail fraud but I dont want to do that unless I absolutly have to. Im trying to be the nice guy here and not take legal action. I hope he realizes that. I dont want anyone going to steal my bullit back or send him nasty instant messages/pms/e-mails/mail bombs/anthrax. I just want things to be even again. Im itchin to ride big bikes again. BMX bikes just dont have the thrill.
Tis good to know that we are dealing with sensible people here....yar!Geoff G. said:I don't think that dexterq20 has to do much about this. the person to take action can not know gordon personaly, think about it, if dex went and took the frame from gordon he would have an enemy for life, and on the other hand if the ITO stole the frame back and beat up gordon it wouldn't effect him because gordon dosn't know where the ito lives
I do think though that dex should tell the ito gordon's adress, and the next thing we should do is get some satilite pics of where he lives online (i forget the site, but it is out there) then send the pics through the mail to his house with a thretening letter
well spoken from a guy that has a smoking pot leaf as an avatarllkoolkeg said:I hate to say it, but nice guys finish last and there is no honor among thieves. This was a premeditated swindle propagated over a lengthy period of time. That anklegripper is not going to just give back his ill-gotten gains! He tried for a long time to pull of the scam and now he has a sucker right where he wants him. He associates freely with people who should ostracize him unless they are either complicit or apathetic to his dishonesty. Additionally, he still sees himself in an elevated position of bargaining power because HE has what he wants and feels that all this will ultimately blow over...which it will unless his victim stops acting like one. If a guy steals your wallet with $500 cash in it, why in the hell would you consider accepting back $250? Because it's better than nothing??? Time to untuck and fight back- legally if you are rational or otherwise if you're a hothead like me.
"Ha ha ha ha haa haa.. I made you eat your parents..."DRB said:I'm thinking that you need to pull the Chili gag from South Park on him. Now that's justice.