So, I'm hanging out with a couple Riot Grrls last night at a local dive. (sorry no pix). One of them makes the announcement that she used to be a lesbian, then bi, now she's straight. We talk more on the subject and she confesses that she was raped twice as a child, and had a ****ty upbringing which she believes (and do I) led her to her sexual lifestyle choices. I've heard the argument thet being gay is not a choice, but many gays I have talked to over the years seem to have similar stories. Can anyone prove me wrong?