Sandwich, here's what you are going to do.
1. Go to UHaul and have them install the hitch rack.
2. Go to [insert rack store, REI, etc] to purchase bike rack and storage box.
3. Mount it up and stop over analyzing isht.
The other option is to get a diaper bag with 5 diapers, 2-3 food items, 2 bottles, a change of clothes, 2 toys, and wipes. That doesn't take up much space. If you are going to visit family, you can do laundry there, so bring less clothes. Depending on the size of the baby, get a snap'n'go if they are in a carrier; fet a simple folding stroller if larger than that. You don't need a BOB while travelling. If are visiting grandparents, buy a pack and play to leave there.
We have a 2010 Subaru Forester. We can comfortably fit both of us with our shared suitcase, the baby and gear, and another passenger comfortably.
Your inability to pack light makes it clearly apparent that you and your wife have never gone backpacking.
1. Go to UHaul and have them install the hitch rack.
2. Go to [insert rack store, REI, etc] to purchase bike rack and storage box.
3. Mount it up and stop over analyzing isht.
The other option is to get a diaper bag with 5 diapers, 2-3 food items, 2 bottles, a change of clothes, 2 toys, and wipes. That doesn't take up much space. If you are going to visit family, you can do laundry there, so bring less clothes. Depending on the size of the baby, get a snap'n'go if they are in a carrier; fet a simple folding stroller if larger than that. You don't need a BOB while travelling. If are visiting grandparents, buy a pack and play to leave there.
We have a 2010 Subaru Forester. We can comfortably fit both of us with our shared suitcase, the baby and gear, and another passenger comfortably.
Your inability to pack light makes it clearly apparent that you and your wife have never gone backpacking.