Quantcast

Holiday Buzz Kill....

  • Come enter the Ridemonkey Secret Santa!

    We're kicking off the 2024 Secret Santa! Exchange gifts with other monkeys - from beer and snacks, to bike gear, to custom machined holiday decorations and tools by our more talented members, there's something for everyone.

    Click here for details and to learn how to participate.

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
Ever since I've dated my GF she's had some pretty severe breathing problems. Also since I've dated my GF she's only had health insurance for a month or 2 at the begining.

Well she's gotten a full time teaching position and here health insurance has only just kicked in at the begining of the month. The first thing she did was to get a referal to see a specialist. 2 weeks ago she went to the specialist and had some tests done. Today she got the results.

She has moderate to severe lung disease due to second had smoking from her mom.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
stoney98 said:
sorry to hear that boss.
It fuggin blows! Thing is when we Mtn bike it seems to really help her condition on a temporary basis. Hopefully this next season we'll be riding more often..... :)
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
douglas said:
damn, that's sucky news - so what does she have to do? medication? exercise? diet?
Medication is the first thing and that will be for the rest of her life. Right now she's gotta take something like 5 different medications. I guess after a certain length of time it will be scaled back to 1 but that will be for the rest of her life.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
stoney98 said:
have her move in with you (humpy humpy humpy)
she already does and we already humpity hump hump hump... see the first post in the GMT.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
Velocity Girl said:
Sorry to hear that Stosh. Sucks that an innocent bystander gets sick from someone elses bad habit :(
Yeah well her mom's smoking has become a major problem and now it's an even bigger problem.

She has a love hate relationship with her mom so I'm just gonna have to wait and see what happens.
 

binary visions

The voice of reason
Jun 13, 2002
22,165
1,261
NC
Another slap in the face to the self-righteous smokers who claim, "I'm not hurting anyone else, why should you care?"

I saw a woman outside the laundry place a couple weeks ago who was sitting in a car with all the windows closed (it was cold out), smoking a cigarette, with a little 1 or 2 year old kid in front passenger seat. The car was practically foggy.

Sorry to hear it, Stosh, hope everything turns out okay. Keep up the riding - my buddy has fairly severe asthma, and his lungs have gotten progressively better every year since he started riding every day!
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
binary visions said:
Another slap in the face to the self-righteous smokers who claim, "I'm not hurting anyone else, why should you care?"

I saw a woman outside the laundry place a couple weeks ago who was sitting in a car with all the windows closed (it was cold out), smoking a cigarette, with a little 1 or 2 year old kid in front passenger seat. The car was practically foggy.

Sorry to hear it, Stosh, hope everything turns out okay. Keep up the riding - my buddy has fairly severe asthma, and his lungs have gotten progressively better every year since he started riding every day!
Yeah it does suck. I'm so glad I quit smoking when I did a few years back.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
Heidi said:
:confused: Cigarettes are harmful? :confused:

So what can they do for her?

Don't know what they can do yet. She's on medication and we'll probably go for a second opinion.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
Heidi said:
I'm totally surprized something hasn't been created to "fix" a person's lungs from smoking.
Why to allow people to smoke more?

I heard Phillip Morris is working on it as we speak. :)
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
mack said:
wow too bad, from second hand smoke? How is the mother still alive from all those cigarets.
makes ya wonder.

My GF almost died when she was like 3. Apparently she developed a hole in her lung. I think ever since then her lungs have been weak. Thus there is more of a chance for her to contract things like this.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
ROCKLAND said:
Sorry to hear Stosh. Are any of your turkey day house guests smokers?
about 1/2 of the people staying at our Apt. smoke. They would not have been allowed to smoke in our house anyway.
 

I Are Baboon

Vagina man
Aug 6, 2001
32,742
10,684
MTB New England
That sucks, man. :(

At least there is a reason for her breathing problems, instead of getting the "we can't find anything" from the doctors. Now that they have identified a problem, she can actually get some treatment.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
I Are Baboon said:
That sucks, man. :(

At least there is a reason for her breathing problems, instead of getting the "we can't find anything" from the doctors. Now that they have identified a problem, she can actually get some treatment.
yeah I agree and thats what I told her. I said atleast now we can fix it and work making sure it doesn't progress (That was my hint for getting her out to bike more)
 

pixelninja

Turbo Monkey
Jun 14, 2003
2,131
0
Denver, CO
That sucks big time. :( It really does blow...

The best decision my wife and I ever made was to quit. It'll be 2 years on Dec 1. Cold turkey. It can be done.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
pixelninja said:
That sucks big time. :( It really does blow...

The best decision my wife and I ever made was to quit. It'll be 2 years on Dec 1. Cold turkey. It can be done.
Her mom is selfish. She won't go to the DR even when she's really sick because she doesn't want to hear the DR tell her to quit smoking.
 

stosh

Darth Bailer
Jul 20, 2001
22,248
408
NY
surfinguru said:
Stosh, just read the post. All i can say is that really sucks and best wishes to you and your GF. It sounds like she has a great guy by her side to help her get through this.....
Ha, yeah well I'm ok. She'll be fine but I think she's just really upset with her mom. Plus now it gives us an excuse not to have my cousin's dogs at our apt.
 

punkassean

Turbo Monkey
Feb 3, 2002
4,561
0
SC, CA
I think that riding is the best thing possible to aid healing, nothing better than lots of fresh air and blood pumping to the area to clean it out. Good luck to her man!
 

H8R

Cranky Pants
Nov 10, 2004
13,959
35
So....

What's going to be the next Mother's Day present? Maybe a carton of Nicorette gum and a punch in the face?

Thanks Mom! :mad: :dead:



Good luck man. Glad I quit, (almost 8 years ago) I hope my mom does some day.

:(
 
J

JRB

Guest
Sucks Stosh. I am amazed that they make me wear a seat belt for safety reasons, but will sell me cigarettes. I hate tobacco companies and the bitches in government that let them flourish. :dead: