Sounds like some sort of RM-cult circle jerk.dh girlie said:Well...we don't like to get too attached to new folks...we've been burned before...we've accepted new people into the fold and then they just disappear without a trace never to be heard from again...it's for our own protection...We get sad and feel abandoned and we have to have group e-hugs and support groups to recover...we just can't set ourselves up for hurt and wear our e hearts on our sleeves, you see...I hope you can understand.