I usually don’t like to get personal on the net,but I need some Fat to Chew on as this matter is on going and out of my control.
My Stepdad Chief,is 90 and taking care of my Mother 86 with Alzheimer's. It is rough going as my Mom keeps getting kicked out of Daycare,8 to 4pm 5 days a week for being aggressive with staff. Only when going to the Bathroom. He has told the staff how to deal with her while going to the bathroom,but to no avail. It has been 4 places with this new one,being the 5th,but we do not know if they will accept her yet? Trial bases right now. Chief is too old and tired to have 24 7 care for her. That being said,it is not what I want you’re thoughts on,but I need to give you the picture so you can understand the stress he and I/family are under.
My Father died from Covid. He was married to a Moraccan,who an older sister. That sisters name is Haria. She has been bad news since I was 15 years of age. She tried to live with my Father and his wife,but all hell broke loose between the two sissies and she was kicked out. That would be Egypt at the time. She then came to America. Circa 90’s. She got a job and starting showing up at Chiefs House for Christmas and Thanksgiving.
I was like,what is she doing here? Fuck her. I have No Love her,why would I? Back then,Dad was visiting from the MiddleEast and my Mom and his Wife did not get along. So,Haria somehow became like a buffer if you will. I never liked it. Over time,she came over more and more to Chiefs house. I even did a lot of work for her because Chief asked me to. Moving,etc.
I am trying to keep the story short,even though there is a lot of details I do not speak of.
So over time,this Bitch moved in to my Moms House. Now,I know what you are thinking. I was very upset,and was told it would be a short time. It has now been Almost 5 years that she has been living in Chiefs House. Chief has 2 daughters,both Grads of Stanford and both married. Both are comfortable. One is a Stupid Airhead. Yet Very Smart. It is the strangest thing to see? It does not make any sense to me? How a human being can have such a stark contrast? The second daughter,and oldest. Is Savy,keen,loving,and has Grit. They are night and day different. The younger daughter’s Husband,from India,with old school beliefs is big time at Google.
“Let me tell you somthing! I do not think I should have to cook? That is what the Women is for.”!
I must say though,he is very calm,but his message is the same. It as if he really does not have the time to waste to with you. You are not on his Level.
He is the Boss of Chiefs Will.
I‘m sorry Monkeys,sorry to ramble,I am upset.
Avy
My Stepdad Chief,is 90 and taking care of my Mother 86 with Alzheimer's. It is rough going as my Mom keeps getting kicked out of Daycare,8 to 4pm 5 days a week for being aggressive with staff. Only when going to the Bathroom. He has told the staff how to deal with her while going to the bathroom,but to no avail. It has been 4 places with this new one,being the 5th,but we do not know if they will accept her yet? Trial bases right now. Chief is too old and tired to have 24 7 care for her. That being said,it is not what I want you’re thoughts on,but I need to give you the picture so you can understand the stress he and I/family are under.
My Father died from Covid. He was married to a Moraccan,who an older sister. That sisters name is Haria. She has been bad news since I was 15 years of age. She tried to live with my Father and his wife,but all hell broke loose between the two sissies and she was kicked out. That would be Egypt at the time. She then came to America. Circa 90’s. She got a job and starting showing up at Chiefs House for Christmas and Thanksgiving.
I was like,what is she doing here? Fuck her. I have No Love her,why would I? Back then,Dad was visiting from the MiddleEast and my Mom and his Wife did not get along. So,Haria somehow became like a buffer if you will. I never liked it. Over time,she came over more and more to Chiefs house. I even did a lot of work for her because Chief asked me to. Moving,etc.
I am trying to keep the story short,even though there is a lot of details I do not speak of.
So over time,this Bitch moved in to my Moms House. Now,I know what you are thinking. I was very upset,and was told it would be a short time. It has now been Almost 5 years that she has been living in Chiefs House. Chief has 2 daughters,both Grads of Stanford and both married. Both are comfortable. One is a Stupid Airhead. Yet Very Smart. It is the strangest thing to see? It does not make any sense to me? How a human being can have such a stark contrast? The second daughter,and oldest. Is Savy,keen,loving,and has Grit. They are night and day different. The younger daughter’s Husband,from India,with old school beliefs is big time at Google.
“Let me tell you somthing! I do not think I should have to cook? That is what the Women is for.”!
I must say though,he is very calm,but his message is the same. It as if he really does not have the time to waste to with you. You are not on his Level.
He is the Boss of Chiefs Will.
I‘m sorry Monkeys,sorry to ramble,I am upset.
Avy
