On year I was driving from Westchester, NY to visit Toronto, and on the way, the concentration of confederate flags on trucks along the highway made me think that maybe the South did win after all...It's a (at least social) suicide to go to the South and tell them that the North was right, but a southener that goes to the rest of the country and blab about the good o' days of the confederacy, that's called nostolgia and patriotism. I got lost a long time ago ever since I started going to Texas every summer and see how the meaning of the Confederacy was ignored and rather portrayed as an era of peace, tranquility, and harmony. Kinda like the fifties, where the old timers would say the times were "good" because the "colored" were kept in their place...It makes me depressed.