I received a text from wife/Alaina's mommy. While we were visiting Alaina yesterday, I mentioned how, now that she's 18, I wouldn't be visiting daily like I have been, as Alaina would be off to college, or traveling, or ??? Text says that, since she is 18, maybe it's time I move on and try/do other things instead of dwelling on the past and continuing to ride in events like I have been. Not stop riding all together, just maybe do events clearly for fun (which I have been since the beginning). Also to slow down on the sponsoring requests, as I'm more of a billboard for companies instead of giving them podium spots.
Hit me a bit oddly, and if you'll recall, I did that Kirkwood 9-to-5 a bit ago, and asked about removing Alaina's child seat from my bike. Many of you supported the decision, saying she would be growing up, and not in the seat any more. Made clear sense then.
Should I stop and move on? Just enjoy riding for what it is and use it for sightseeing and exercise? Participate less in events? I don't feel my wife is being heartless, though cycling has been a part of my life for almost 30 years.
Thoughts from the RM Collective? Be honest, yet be considerate (I know, like that's possible). My wife is still, and will be, one of 6 special ladies in my life (her, Mom, Grandma, and all 3 daughters).......
Thanks, gang.
Hit me a bit oddly, and if you'll recall, I did that Kirkwood 9-to-5 a bit ago, and asked about removing Alaina's child seat from my bike. Many of you supported the decision, saying she would be growing up, and not in the seat any more. Made clear sense then.
Should I stop and move on? Just enjoy riding for what it is and use it for sightseeing and exercise? Participate less in events? I don't feel my wife is being heartless, though cycling has been a part of my life for almost 30 years.
Thoughts from the RM Collective? Be honest, yet be considerate (I know, like that's possible). My wife is still, and will be, one of 6 special ladies in my life (her, Mom, Grandma, and all 3 daughters).......
Thanks, gang.