Oddly, out of the bikes I own the easier one to get the front wheel in air with is the one with the longer reach as it also has the shorter chain stays.Exactly. That’s my beef, how much harder it is for me to wheelie drop with the long bikes.
And yes, that is proof that I kinda suck.
that's what I have started to pay attention to when looking at bike sizes. Reach numbers by themselves get a bit funny with steep seat tube anglesProbably need to bring ETT length back into your comparisons, rather than just reach.
On a trail bike I would guess that you spend more time seated than standing, so would not the fit on the climbs be important to? I also find the new school longer reach/ETT gives you a larger sweet spot to centre you weight in front of the BB when descending vs the old school shorter reach/ETT which meant that most of the time you have to be directly over or behind the BB which made it more challenging to change directions in a hurry.A steeper seat angle does not change how the bike fits and rides when you are standing up (aka descending). Unless you want to quibble about steering with your knee on the side of the saddle.
Feeling comfortable or cramped during seated climbing and feeling comfortable or cramped on a descent are different things.
Sorry for being Captain Obvious.