Concur entirely. I have had to deal with so many people that did not have the problems that you have had, which is why my stance is where it is.I'm sorry, but IN MY CASE, you're 200% wrong. For many reasons I don't really want to go into on a public message board. Suffice it to say, I did have 2 serious medical problems that completely wiped me out financially. Because I did the responsible thing and paid my debts.
Hey, I'm not upset, I got the home loan mod, I have a paid off vehicle and I'm current on my bills. I'm broke as hell, but I'm "responsible".
High five!
PS - I think we actually do agree, but you seem to want to be on a soapbox right now, so you I'll let you rant.
I very much respect your taking the responsible course of action, and following through on your commitments.