sorry, i wasn't trying to be insultive of your parenting techniques as i have seen children who are just naturally passive and obedient, however, ruling out corporal punishment b/c "your kids didn't need it" is equally as "insightful".
the bottom line: if you can handle your kids w/out corporal punishment than consider yourself blessed, however, don't confuse a smack on the butt for abuse and don't assume that it is a neanderthalistic form of discipline because you may not understand why someone would do that.
*side note: i have met a lot of social workers in my line of work that assume that any form of corporal punishment is abuse, however, of those SW's that share that belief, none of them have kids of their own *
as VB mentioned, infrequent hide-tannings could yield the desired behavioural response, and that's ok. but if the 'engagement' frequency doesn't abate, at what point is it clear that this isn't working, and a different strategy required?
as VB mentioned, infrequent hide-tannings could yield the desired behavioural response, and that's ok. but if the 'engagement' frequency doesn't abate, at what point is it clear that this isn't working, and a different strategy required?
and that's just it: never let them know when it could happen. as w/ my dad, the fear of him hitting me was far worse than the actual pimp slap.
another point: if you engage your kids too often, they might start up that steep learning curve sooner than you hope, & you'll find yourself wandering your neighborhood naked & bleeding. there are some rites of passage that should be reserved for the fine institutions of marriage & supercross events.
now my youngest daughter, on the other hand, is impervious to any kind of corporal punishment. she laughs and then runs away only to continue on her toddler crime wave, we have had to find alternative methods with her.
Watch out. Apparently, you've been beaten as a child, will unconsciously walk into traffic while listening to your iPod, and get lots of money for not being bright enough to actually open your eyes.
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