Wow that sounds all too familiar. If she doesn't take responsibility for herself get rid of her. I did that last year and it was probably the best decision I have made in years. I was with the chick for 3 years at that point. Best of luck man.considering my living situation right now and the fact that my mother was kind enough to take me and my girl back in during the fires, i told her she has till the end of the week to get a job or shes out. she has had over a month to get one yet she still sits on her ass sleeping everyday till 130 when im at work. and she has spent nearly a thousand dollars that we set aside to get a place on makeup and clothes. granted its her money, but she should be a little more responsible with it considering our living situation right now. im tired of it. i have my life started and im not being dragged down because of her failure to mature into an adult. it sucks but i think im making the right decision