Wife gets off the phone last night with her mother. She's crying and all upset. I'm like what's up. She replies, "my parents are getting a divorce." I'm like why? Well long story short. My brother in law knows a mail carrier lady in town they live in and the mail carrier lady or postmistress for lack of better words told him "if your father exposes himself to me again, I'm calling the cops" So my bro in law told my ma in law and the sh*t hits the fan. Turns out that he's been doing this for years to the whole small street they live on. It also turns out that my wifes sister and my brother in law remember several times when younger and having friends over that his bathrobe which he's always in would magically open by mistake. My wife remembers nothing happening like this. I wonder if she was perhaps molestered and supresses the feelings. However, unlike me, my wife is 100% mentally stable, a RN manager at hospital, outstanding woman and mother and whatnot. No mental issues whatsoever. Drinks a bottle of wine once a week and wakes up in a happy mood. I can't drink period. If I drank a bottle of wine I'd be out of commission for 3 days. Anyhow her sister (my sister in law who has 3 kids) exclaimed that he's to never see her children again. My baby, who is 1.5 years old has only slept over 2x since she's been born. Her mother is the neurotic type "where's the baby" every 2 seconds and never lets her out of her sight. So I don't think anything has happened. However I don't think I want her over there on overnights. I'm not sure the divorce is something that is going to happen. The funny thing is that my mother in law is the gossip queen of the town. To think that this has been going on for years and she has had no idea is kind of whack. When my wife told me, I stood there for 10 minutes with my jaw on the floor. I think it's still sitting at home on the floor. It makes me not want to be on this planet to think that there are types that actually get off on kids. WTF? This sort of makes me believe that Satan is real, despite my years of disbelief. Now I'm not sure if anything has ever been done to a child, but if your standing outside on your front porch exposing yourself in the nude to your neighbors, one has to wonder if that sort of behavior leads to wanting to do stuff to kids too. My parents are whacked. 18 years I spent witnessing blood, knives, fists, alchohol abuse on my mothers part. My dad never drank as far as I knew. He was just a rageaholic, no alchohol required. 16 hour work days, 2 jobs to provide 2 homes, dirt bikes, snowmobiles, 2 homes, etc... coming home to an unappreciative drunk every night was a recipe for disaster. Anyhow my point is that when I met my wife I'm like "omg, your family is completely normal." I guess not ha? What a shocka eh?