I rode winter park with him one weekend, he knows I am a failure.welcome to being shunned by stoney. the pending lecture is boring.
Can't lecture stupid and think it will help.
I rode winter park with him one weekend, he knows I am a failure.welcome to being shunned by stoney. the pending lecture is boring.
Just you champ. Just you.welcome to being shunned by stoney. the pending lecture is boring.
You're good. You just need to do a better job of hiding the beer bottles next time.I rode winter park with him one weekend, he knows I am a failure.
Can't lecture stupid and think it will help.
Yeah, just a different consequence they don't want to consider. Same thing, though: this feel good now, thinking about later doesn't feel as good.I think a lot of people also have a problem seeing a number in their account and not wanting to buy something with it. If someone gets a check for $5k, usually you hear 'I'm gonna get a new TV', not 'If I invest this, it could be 50K in 20 years'....
I demand gratification by you updating your Fi traveling experience n00b!most people suck at delaying gratification.
This. It's seriously hard to make good decisions when it comes to immediate gratification. I know what it costs me later for an impulse buy now, and I still make them. Side note: I really want to get another bike. I don't like my Look as much as I could.Yeah, just a different consequence they don't want to consider. Same thing, though: this feel good now, thinking about later doesn't feel as good.
Whether it's a bad consequence like a credit card payment due, or just diminishing something good like a better retirement, most people suck at delaying gratification.
:marshmallowstudygoeshere:Yeah, just a different consequence they don't want to consider. Same thing, though: this feel good now, thinking about later doesn't feel as good.
Whether it's a bad consequence like a credit card payment due, or just diminishing something good like a better retirement, most people suck at delaying gratification.
Pffftttt I'm a growler or can guy.You're good. You just need to do a better job of hiding the beer bottles next time.
That's an understatement.eSome people don't adhere to the line.
I'm at about 25% (but make much MUCH less money than you do) and manage to stay comfortable with the 'wants' in my life. More free time would be priceless, but getting my finances in order is more important than that at the moment.I'm saving about 30% gross. I'd be higher but so much of my income is dedicated to debt service at the moment.
I gotta say, being debt-free (mortgage debt non-withstanding) makes it all quite a bit easier. Even with 3 kids. Although it *still* is required to forgo things 'cause responsibility.<snip>
I'm saving about 30% gross. I'd be higher but so much of my income is dedicated to debt service at the moment.
As long as one's lifestyle fits in what's left after savings then the amount doesn't matter. It's all the ratio of savings to what's necessary per Trinity study or whatever to retire on.I'm at about 25% (but make much MUCH less money than you do) and manage to stay comfortable with the 'wants' in my life. More free time would be priceless, but getting my finances in order is more important than that at the moment.
We're ~20% gross and that is a hard rate to maintain with Haley still being in school. Once she goes to public school, we'll be able to pull in an additional ~5% more.That's an understatement.
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I'm saving about 30% gross. I'd be higher but so much of my income is dedicated to debt service at the moment.
We spend a ton on food, too. Wife and kids are so wasteful of food: Mariko rarely eats much but my wife always presents her with a full plate of this and that, most of which goes down the disposal at the end of the day. Also see "buying berries out of season, always".We're ~20% gross and that is a hard rate to maintain with Haley still being in school. Once she goes to public school, we'll be able to pull in an additional ~5% more.
We could do more, but the 'fuck it' aspect exists and we'll pay more to have something done for us. We also eat out/take out as a family probably 3-4 times per week and I'll get lunch 2-3 days per week. Our dining 'budget' is almost 1:1 with grocery shopping. There's real money to be saved there, but it's a lot easier when you price your time to what something costs.
No composting? Hippie fail.We spend a ton on food, too. Wife and kids are so wasteful of food: Mariko rarely eats much but my wife always presents her with a full plate of this and that, most of which goes down the disposal at the end of the day.
Stapleton. They be all fancy and HOA out there.No composting? Hippie fail.![]()
I eat a lot of leftover hotdogs, mac and cheese, etc. I refuse to waste food when I can avoid it. Also, I'm now fat again, so... Maybe I should reassess that strategy.We spend a ton on food, too. Wife and kids are so wasteful of food: Mariko rarely eats much but my wife always presents her with a full plate of this and that, most of which goes down the disposal at the end of the day. Also see "buying berries out of season, always".
Yeah, I need to stop eating Mariko's leftovers and just pack 'em up… so that the wife can throw them out later when I'm not home.I eat a lot of leftover hotdogs, mac and cheese, etc. I refuse to waste food when I can avoid it. Also, I'm now fat again, so... Maybe I should reassess that strategy.
No composting? Hippie fail.![]()
The south part of Stapleton in which we were renting had compost service. Our newfangled area doesn't and I'm not going to have a compost heap in a corner of the yard so that the 1 year old can climb directly into it.Stapleton. They be all fancy and HOA out there.
Yeah I'd recommend against a heap - neighbor across the street had his heap spontaneously combust and a visit from the local fire department was required. And a new fence.<snip> Our newfangled area doesn't and I'm not going to have a compost heap in a corner of the yard so that the 1 year old can climb directly into it.![]()
https://www.amazon.com/Worms-Eat-My-Garbage-Composting/dp/0977804518Yeah I'd recommend against a heap - neighbor across the street had his heap spontaneously combust and a visit from the local fire department was required. And a new fence.
The compost boxes are pretty cheap, though. At least I think it was.
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They basically don't exist outside of public employment at this time. Private companies that have them tend to not adjust for inflation, so they effectively force people to pull their money into an IRA so as to avoid getting consumed by inflation.Just curious... how many of you have a pension in addition to your 401K? I was the last generation of trainees in my company to get both, a 50% match up to 6% and a qualified pension. It makes saving easy.
If you're County of Orange, I hate you.Pension. 2.7%@55. I also pay into a city 457, a Retirement Health Savings plan, my own Roth IRA and have some cash in the stock market.
My dad has one hell of a pension from United Airlines... but he started in 1967.At an airline?![]()
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Legacy employees often have them. Nobody that started in the 2000's will have them (if that late).My dad has one hell of a pension from United Airlines... but he started in 1967.
I started my job in 2004 which was the last year for my company.Legacy employees often have them. Nobody that started in the 2000's will have them (if that late).
Which in 30 years will be a rounding error to your income.I have a pension from my time at a former company. I started there in 2008 and was the last group to get that benefit. Current estimate = $400 monthly.