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Pig my fish!
Staff member
May 23, 2002
21,832
7,086
borcester rhymes
Here. Feeling worn down at work. Gotta get some good news going to turn things around.

Slept well for the first time in what feels like weeks. Wish I hadn't set an alarm. Regardless, I got up and rode like 15-20mi on the zwifter without a workout plan, which felt good and I needed to do something just for fun. Back to the grind...
 

Adventurous

Starshine Bro
Mar 19, 2014
10,851
9,891
Crawlorado
:wave:

Sometimes I am entirely convinced I have ADD. Such a hard time focusing on any given task for more than a few minutes at once.

Either that or the constantly in demand, fast paced world we live in has ratcheted up my anxiery and never letting me feel settled in any given moment.
 

StiHacka

Compensating for something
Jan 4, 2013
21,560
12,508
In hell. Welcome!
Either that or the constantly in demand, fast paced world we live in has ratcheted up my anxiery and never letting me feel settled in any given moment.
I feel like I've been in the struggling mode (with occasional trips to surviving and in-crisis modes) for the past four-five years but eventually you get used to everything. Hang in there.

Shakedown ride with the new battery pack was a success, now I have to re-package it for durability. I shall be joining a ride with my czech beer buddies tonight.
 

AngryMetalsmith

Business is good, thanks for asking
Jun 4, 2006
22,056
12,782
I have no idea where I am
:wave:

Sometimes I am entirely convinced I have ADD. Such a hard time focusing on any given task for more than a few minutes at once.

Either that or the constantly in demand, fast paced world we live in has ratcheted up my anxiery and never letting me feel settled in any given moment.
Could be Covid/Pandemic fatigue. Almost two years of being in crisis or survival mode is a Hell of a lot longer than most of us have experienced.
 

Full Trucker

Frikkin newb!!!
Feb 26, 2003
11,136
8,772
Exit, CO
Got a sick doggo at home, been cleaning up diarrhea and vomit since last night. She looks so sad, but at least now we have her quarantined to the back of the house where there's no rugs.
 

stoney

Part of the unwashed, middle-American horde
Jul 26, 2006
22,002
7,886
Colorado
:wave:

Sometimes I am entirely convinced I have ADD. Such a hard time focusing on any given task for more than a few minutes at once.

Either that or the constantly in demand, fast paced world we live in has ratcheted up my anxiery and never letting me feel settled in any given moment.
Talked with my neurologist about it a few weeks ago. She totally agrees that I might (probably, but she's not allowed to diagnose it) have it. I seem to be at my capacity to maintain stress levels based on the amount coming at me and my inability to organize and complete any given task before getting sidetracked into another, with the only thing allowing me to get things done is raw urgency or consequence.

I think the group here as a whole could diagnose me, but @Nick will likely be lol'ing at this list.
Some specialists have suggested the following as a list of symptoms associated with ADHD in adults:

  • carelessness and lack of attention to detail
  • continually starting new tasks before finishing old ones
  • poor organisational skills
  • inability to focus or prioritise
  • continually losing or misplacing things
  • forgetfulness
  • restlessness and edginess
  • difficulty keeping quiet, and speaking out of turn
  • blurting out responses and often interrupting others
  • mood swings, irritability and a quick temper
  • inability to deal with stress
  • extreme impatience
  • taking risks in activities, often with little or no regard for personal safety or the safety of others – for example, driving dangerously
 

Adventurous

Starshine Bro
Mar 19, 2014
10,851
9,891
Crawlorado
Talked with my neurologist about it a few weeks ago. She totally agrees that I might (probably, but she's not allowed to diagnose it) have it. I seem to be at my capacity to maintain stress levels based on the amount coming at me and my inability to organize and complete any given task before getting sidetracked into another, with the only thing allowing me to get things done is raw urgency or consequence.

I think the group here as a whole could diagnose me, but @Nick will likely be lol'ing at this list.
Primarily mine would be inability to focus, forgetfulness, and restlessness. Heck, if I can dedicate 10 minutes of focused time on any given task it's a win. I always have thoughts about completely random things flying into my head. Things I want to lookup, things I need to do, its like my mind is constantly being bombarded with outside thoughts. Sometimes I go into a fugue state lost in these thoughts and snap back to reality 10 minutes later.

It makes it incredibly difficult to get things done at times. I've been coping somehow, but I'm wondering if I'd benefit from some help.
 

Toshi

butthole powerwashing evangelist
Oct 23, 2001
39,758
8,757
Feeling worn down at work
I, too, am feeling burnt out. This has just been a shitshow at work from July through now.

December schedule looks better, though, and then there's ski season to keep my spirits up (with the coincident lack of me signing up for extra shifts when I'm busy with that).
 

Full Trucker

Frikkin newb!!!
Feb 26, 2003
11,136
8,772
Exit, CO
Some specialists have suggested the following as a list of symptoms associated with ADHD in adults:
  • carelessness and lack of attention to detail
  • continually starting new tasks before finishing old ones
  • poor organisational skills
  • inability to focus or prioritise
  • continually losing or misplacing things
  • forgetfulness
  • restlessness and edginess
  • difficulty keeping quiet, and speaking out of turn
  • blurting out responses and often interrupting others
  • mood swings, irritability and a quick temper
  • inability to deal with stress
  • extreme impatience
  • taking risks in activities, often with little or no regard for personal safety or the safety of others – for example, driving dangerously
These are not symptoms of ADHD, this is just called being an asshole.
 

jimmydean

The Official Meat of Ridemonkey
Sep 10, 2001
43,096
15,178
Portland, OR
Morning Monkeys.

So as some may recall my neighbors van was stolen and never replaced. Yesterday she borrowed the neighbors "spare" car to fetch her kids. This just seems weird to me. I can get not replacing the expensive Odyssey minivan, but you clearly need a second vehicle, so just get a beater?

Am I weird? I can't imagine asking to borrow my neighbors car. But then again Brian across the street borrowed my truck to haul dirt because his is too nice. So there is that.
 

I Are Baboon

Vagina man
Aug 6, 2001
32,745
10,695
MTB New England
I have read all the replies to this thread as of Squeeb's 1:43 offering.

I just had my biweekly staff meeting. I don't know why we do things things every two weeks. Seems like once a month would suffice, but I'll stick to the biweekly schedule just for the mere sake of doing something as the manager. I swear I spend three times as long preparing than the meeting actually takes. What kind of asshole hosts a meeting without being prepared tho?
 

Changleen

Paranoid Member
Jan 9, 2004
14,730
2,712
Pōneke
Morning Monkeys.

So as some may recall my neighbors van was stolen and never replaced. Yesterday she borrowed the neighbors "spare" car to fetch her kids. This just seems weird to me. I can get not replacing the expensive Odyssey minivan, but you clearly need a second vehicle, so just get a beater?

Am I weird? I can't imagine asking to borrow my neighbors car. But then again Brian across the street borrowed my truck to haul dirt because his is too nice. So there is that.
That’s great. We borrow our neighbours car occasionally, and friends have borrowed ours. Mini-socialism ftw.
 

Changleen

Paranoid Member
Jan 9, 2004
14,730
2,712
Pōneke
I have read all the replies to this thread as of Squeeb's 1:43 offering.

I just had my biweekly staff meeting. I don't know we do things things every two weeks. Seems like once a month would suffice, but I'll stick to the biweekly schedule just for the mere sake of doing something as the manager. I swear I spend three times as long preparing than the meeting actually takes. What kind of asshole hosts a meeting without being prepared tho?
Many assholes do that, and I think your ratio is good. A high-powered businizz mentor once told me you should spend twice as long preparing for (hosting) meetings as their length. Has been good advice.
 

Westy

the teste
Nov 22, 2002
56,005
22,041
Sleazattle
Primarily mine would be inability to focus, forgetfulness, and restlessness. Heck, if I can dedicate 10 minutes of focused time on any given task it's a win. I always have thoughts about completely random things flying into my head. Things I want to lookup, things I need to do, its like my mind is constantly being bombarded with outside thoughts. Sometimes I go into a fugue state lost in these thoughts and snap back to reality 10 minutes later.

It makes it incredibly difficult to get things done at times. I've been coping somehow, but I'm wondering if I'd benefit from some help.
I don't know how accurate this is but I think I can say that I fell into these behaviors during the pandemic with the described results, which sounds similar to what you are dealing with.

 

canadmos

Cake Tease
May 29, 2011
21,985
21,511
Canaderp
I have read all the replies to this thread as of Squeeb's 1:43 offering.

I just had my biweekly staff meeting. I don't know why we do things things every two weeks. Seems like once a month would suffice, but I'll stick to the biweekly schedule just for the mere sake of doing something as the manager. I swear I spend three times as long preparing than the meeting actually takes. What kind of asshole hosts a meeting without being prepared tho?
Staff meetings for the entire company/building/whatever or just your team?

We have weekly meetings for our Team, which are structured for the first 15-20 minutes and then its just a free for all. Its nice because none of work in the same building or on the same things on a day to day basis, so it can be good for throwing ideas and trouble points out there.
 

MikeD

Leader and Demogogue of the Ridemonkey Satinists
Oct 26, 2001
11,735
1,819
chez moi
Work sucks and I just wanna go ride my bike and wrench on a bunch of stuff. Hoping I can in the morning tomorrow; Vets Day off.