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  1. formermtboarder

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    k theres this girl im w/ right (im a jr in highschool btw), well alls good then today she totally blows me off the whole day, AND is chillin w/ thios other dude

    Ive done NOTHING at all that she could be pissed about

    then on AIM she started talkin to me (wtf?) and i was like whats up, u were bein a bitch today

    even more downhill form there, that was a mistake, ive apoligized, but shes pissed, what do i do?

    i have no idea whats goin on, wtf?

    female member please explain and save my relationship asap, everything i do seems to make her more pissed

    HELP!!! :confused: :help: :help:
     

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  2. bluebug32

    bluebug32 Asshat

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    it could be because of your interesting usage of spelling and grammar....but that's just a wild guess.

    Ask SkaredShtles to use his female intuition as to what's going on ;)
     
  3. stinkyboy

    stinkyboy Plastic Santa

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    You've discovered women (girls in your case). Hurrah!

    Trust me, you'll be asking the same questions in 20 years...

    If she "runs", you'll chase, and vice versa...

    Don't overthink sh*t!!!
     
  4. Secret Squirrel

    Secret Squirrel There is no Justice!

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    You're done....just ride it out...

    Oh yeah, and buy flowers. Lots and lots of flowers. Preferrably roses....that might work.

    P.S. It doesn't matter what you did or if you remember it, all that counts is that she's pissed about something.
     
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    bluebug32 Asshat

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    Stinkyboy actually speaks some truth. I'm sure you've acted strange to people for no apparent reason. No offense, but HS kids are immature and wrapped up in fake appearance and popularity. If her friends were around or something that could have been enough to make her ignore you. Girls that age are all wrapped up in what people think of them. Just a tip, however: don't call a girl a bitch EVER, especially if you intend to be in a relationship with her. We don't ever enjoy being called that by someone we're in a relationship with. Good luck, killer.
     
  6. Ciaran

    Ciaran Fear my banana

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    :stupid:

    At your age, just let her go. Another one will be along shortly.
     
  7. formermtboarder

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    hahah well i though this one was diff, real cool not fake like alot of girls
     
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    COmtbiker12 Turbo Monkey

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    Lol, its high school. Sh1t happens and that's all you can expect. Infatuations come and go, if things go south there will be someone else I'm sure. :p

    Sucks though man. :(
     
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    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    fixed
     
  10. formermtboarder

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    u dont understand, she was so diff not all about appearance and ****, like DIFFRENT as in f**kin cool
    i just dont get it, last time something like this happened was w/ another girl, it was for really good reasons (aka i damn well deserved the break-upness)
     
  11. stinkyboy

    stinkyboy Plastic Santa

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    Nah, I just dont give a sh*t anymore...

    :think:
     
  12. formermtboarder

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    ps. my bar humptitude has failed since i havnt been able to ride in 2 weeks due to concussion, bummer
     
  13. bluebug32

    bluebug32 Asshat

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    welcome to the world of women. You men are just as confusing, but at least your motives are easy to figure out
     
  14. COmtbiker12

    COmtbiker12 Turbo Monkey

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    Its high school. sh1t happens.

    (coming from another Junior in High school)
     
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    LordOpie MOTHER HEN

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    Enlighten us, if you please :)
     
  16. formermtboarder

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    YES PLEASE DO!

    tell me ur motives then...
     
  17. laura

    laura DH_Laura

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    dump her. you are way to young to waste your time on girls.
     
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    blt2ride Turbo Monkey

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    Dude, don't try to figure out women--you'll lose your mind. If she was out talking to some other guy, I would give her the cold shoulder for a few days. If she happens to call you (assuming you have a cell phone or caller ID), I would just ignore her calls and see what happens.

    Or, you could just ask her what's going on...either way, you'll probably end up confused! I wouldn't sweat it too much, though. Trust me, you'll look back on this in a fews years and laugh. Good luck...
     
  19. Denny

    Denny Chimp

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    I don't know you but you sound like you're coming on kind of strong. Now is the time for you to experience lots of people (safely) and not get stuck in a situation that will limit what you want to do later on...not that it's impossible to find that person at your age but it's pretty damn unlikely. We don't have nearly enough info but that seems to be how she is operating. Talk to her about exclusivity and boundaries and see if you can be together without tightening the noose so much.

    But I don't agree with whoever said maybe she just didn't want to be seen with you. That's not cool and if that's the case you need to move on. Unless she's just a play buddy...
     
  21. chicodude

    chicodude The Spooninator

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    escapeartist Turbo Monkey

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    Yeah, thats definetly the high school thing to do. I disagree, you screwed up when u called her a bitch and I think you two need to have a talk. IE, talk to your girlfriend about your girlfriend problems, not your e-friends.
     
  23. robdamanii

    robdamanii OMG! <3 Tom Brady!

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    Don't. You'll find out more about me than you'll ever want to know.
     
  24. formermtboarder

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    well right now im totally recieving the cold shoulder so...sucks balls, ill just talk to her tommorow and c what happens
     
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    robdamanii OMG! <3 Tom Brady!

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    Ignore her. If she sees no interest, she'll try to get your attention back.


    And fix your spelling, it gives me a headache.
     
  26. hooples3

    hooples3 Fuggetaboutit!

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    hmm usually talking to her and asking if something thing is wrong might work.. but its going to take asking whats wrong at least 6 times before she even hints that something is wrong
     
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    :stupid:
     
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    grow some balls and confront her or bang her best friend
     
  29. JRB

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    Or better yet, curb huck her, and bang her sister. :think:
     
  30. manhattanprjkt83

    manhattanprjkt83 Rusty Trombone

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    Man i would have to say, if she is "chilling" with another dude, you need to act like you dont give a sh*t, and let her see you chilling with another girl...This usually works in situations like this...take it from a pro :thumb:

    but hey man you are in hichschool, dont sweat it lots of good times to come :thumb:
     
  31. formermtboarder

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    well an update another weird day, but like she wqas alot cooler today, but still kinda weird. About her sister she only has a brother who is actually one of my good friends soooooooo.....uugggghhhh

    and her close friends are...not appealing to me (either skankish or ugly), im cool w/ all of them, but i wont stoop that low just to piss her off.




    alex(escapeartist) is a whore (she denies anything anyway)