I weigh about 205lbs with my riding gear on. I wouldn't say a flexy fork is a good thing as the new boxxer chassis is a big improvement over the older version as far as steering accuracy goes but i think the 40 is a little bit too much. I think the boxxer has the balance right.so a flexy fork is good thing? i never thought the 40 was too stiff for me. how much do you weigh?