As terrible as when I hear about someone losing a son.Originally posted by N8
Ok... how does this make you all feel... especially you men???
As terrible as when I hear about someone losing a son.Originally posted by N8
Ok... how does this make you all feel... especially you men???
Originally posted by ohio
I wonder how colleges get away with co-ed bathrooms and the military can't. Ever read/see Starship Troopers? Maybe we're just behind the times.
Originally posted by N8
I feel different for some reason... more disturbed maybe. I don't know why... I can't explain it. However, with women in the battle theater this is going to happen again and again.
Still... I am going to have a hard time getting used to it. When I was in the SeaBees, we had no women in our unit. There are now though...
I feel bad for the families of everyone who dies in combat. The armed services are 100% WAR oriented - I give the lady her due, I think she was capable of understanding exactly what she signed up for.Originally posted by N8
Ok... how does this make you all feel... especially you men???
Originally posted by geargrrl
re read my posts. I am opposed to single (unspoken: custodial) PARENTS leaving their kids. I corrected the refernce to moms over dads early on.
assuming they had sole custody, who's taking care of the kids?
who'd they leave 'em with?
All I care about is those kids that are left behind with no parent.
geargrrl
Sounds like it's not the women that are the problem, but the men. Lack of self-control seems to be more of a problem for the men than the fighting abilities of women now doesn't it?Originally posted by BurlySurly
So we get out there, and immediately the Marines' attention turns from digging trenches to checking out the officer.
Even if that were the case, the problem doesnt have to be there. It would be more effective to simply preclude women from forward areas than to try and reprogram 174,000 US Marines.Originally posted by ghettorigged
Sounds like it's not the women that are the problem, but the men. Lack of self-control seems to be more of a problem for the men than the fighting abilities of women now doesn't it?
You're saying that 174,000 Marnes would put themselves at risk because women are present? I don't think so.Originally posted by BurlySurly
Even if that were the case, the problem doesnt have to be there. It would be more effective to simply preclude women from forward areas than to try and reprogram 174,000 US Marines.
Marines are "programmed' to become distacted in the pressence of women? I'm calling my congressman (or woman) with this sensitive information!!!Originally posted by BurlySurly
Even if that were the case, the problem doesnt have to be there. It would be more effective to simply preclude women from forward areas than to try and reprogram 174,000 US Marines.
Saw a good interview with a Major who was taken POW in the last gulf war. Her take was that after having 5 people in her helo crew die, braking both arms and getting shot in the back being sexually assaulted by a guard was a minor problem.Originally posted by BurlySurly
I feel different. I feel even worse because i know that after being captured, she was probably repeatedly raped and sodomized before being executed. There's no honor in dying that way. I feel deeply for her family.
Which is the point I brought up.Originally posted by ghettorigged
You're saying that 174,000 Marnes would put themselves at risk because women are present? I don't think so.
You obviously havent spent any time around Marines.Originally posted by ghettorigged
You're saying that 174,000 Marnes would put themselves at risk because women are present? I don't think so.
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Absolutely correct.Originally posted by ohio
Which is the point I brought up.
At the same time, the folks on the front lines and under the pressures of war, should be able to be blow off as much steam as they want to back at the base/camp/trench. I'm not going to penalize them for crudity when they'reseeing what they're seeing and risking what they're risking.
Having spent a decent amount of time in both single sex and co-ed "fraternities" back in the day I can say that , within the framework of heterosexuality, men (even well-adjusted ones) can blow off steam more easily when they're only among men. Blame it on evolution, but the sex drive is programmed into us plain and simple.
Since we are talking about 'programming' so much here, why not assume that good soldiers, Marines, etc can be 'programmed' to think of their women-counterparts as comrades and not outlets to stick it in?Originally posted by ohio
men (even well-adjusted ones) can blow off steam more easily when they're only among men. Blame it on evolution, but the sex drive is programmed into us plain and simple.
Actually that's arguably only a societal influence. Our evolutionary instinct is only to protect our children.Originally posted by Damn True
Absolutely correct.
We also have a pre-programed protection reaction when women are present.
In a perfect world, Im with you 100%. But this is reality we're talking here.Originally posted by BarbaRosa
point is the character and ability of the person should be the only dictator of jobs assigned. seperate pottys and showers should be the last on list of 'necesities' we all **** we all pee, there are no gay only latrines now are there?
If they can't think with the head on their shoulders, then I am glad I haven't.Originally posted by BurlySurly
You obviously havent spent any time around Marines.
too true. When I was at the ER with my extremely painful seperated shoulder, (even almost puked once from the pain) I thought to myself, "damn, that nurse is super cute!" Forgot all about the pain while she was thereOriginally posted by ohio
Blame it on evolution, but the sex drive is programmed into us plain and simple.
Differenent types of "programming." The sex drive is the result of evolution. These are the genetic and chemical differences between men and women, and without drugs cannot be altered... only suppressed or controlled.Originally posted by ghettorigged
Since we are talking about 'programming' so much here, why not assume that good soldiers, Marines, etc can be 'programmed' to think of their women-counterparts as comrades and not outlets to stick it in?
A Marines job in combat is not to think, so much as it is to follow orders exactly. Anything that impedes that, which can be expelled, should not be there, plain and simple. Some of the finest people I've met are Marines and former Marines. You should go to your local VFW and actually get an idea what you're talking about. Ask them about this topic and i assume you'll get a similar answer.Originally posted by ghettorigged
If they can't think with the head on their shoulders, then I am glad I haven't.
Dont think that's the point midge...Originally posted by Serial Midget
I have never met a woman who, given equal access to resouces, training and opportunity, could not take care of herself. Some guys might like to flatter themselves into thinking women need their protection but that seems like outdated thinking to me. Delusional even, in my opinion.
Like I said, societal influence, rather than evolutionary one.Originally posted by Serial Midget
I have never met a woman who, given equal access to resouces, training and opportunity, could not take care of herself. Some guys might like to flatter themselves into thinking women need their protection but that seems like outdated thinking to me. Delusional even, in my opinion.
I don't think working together is a problem either. When there's work to be done, people do it. It's only idle time I'm not sure what to do about...Originally posted by BurlySurly
Dont think that's the point midge...
Its more about their abilities in working together, or lack of rather.
Idle hands are the devils tools... :evil:Originally posted by ohio
I don't think working together is a problem either. When there's work to be done, people do it. It's only idle time I'm not sure what to do about...
...yeah, right after they pinch my a$$Originally posted by BurlySurly
You should go to your local VFW and actually get an idea what you're talking about. Ask them about this topic and i assume you'll get a similar answer.
Originally posted by LordOpie
too true. When I was at the ER with my extremely painful seperated shoulder, (even almost puked once from the pain) I thought to myself, "damn, that nurse is super cute!" Forgot all about the pain while she was there
I don't think it is either. Give DHGirlie an M16 and look out!!!Originally posted by ohio
I don't think it's an issue on the battlefield, at all. And maybe it's not ENOUGH of an issue off the battlefield to keep women off the front lines.
Ladies and Gentlemen.Originally posted by DRB
I don't want to hear your comments about reality and crap like that.
Make love not war :love: :devil:Originally posted by Serial Midget
Idle hands are the devils tools... :evil:
I don't know... DRB may have a point. As both a marine AND a journalist, your reality credentials are limited to say the least...Originally posted by BurlySurly
Ladies and Gentlemen.
The stupidest comment of the day. Thank you
So far she has been silent on the issue, I'm beginning to think she might have a frivolous nature.Originally posted by ghettorigged
I don't think it is either. Give DHGirlie an M16 and look out!!!
Originally posted by Damn True
My experience, yours may differ:
While in the Coast Guard I had the opportunity to work with some very good and very poor female pilots and aircrew.
As DRB said the good ones (sadly they were vastly outnumbered by the poor) have worked long and hard, in some cases harder than men, to achieve their status. The rest used their femininity as a tool to get by.
In all cases I noticed a common tendancy. A lack of command presance that stemmed from a desire for acceptance. They rarely if ever just made a decision. More often they would defer to others in the crew senior and subordinate alike in decision making. While the concepts of CRM dictate that all members of the cockpit should take part in decision making there has to be a point where a decision is made. The female pilots and aircrew that I worked with rarely if ever fully took control of a situation.
I'm sure someone smarter than I am could write a book on the subject explaining the why's and wherefores but in my experience most (not all) women lack the ability to make split second decisions in life threatening situations.
Is the accident/incident/death rate any higher for female pilots as opposed to male pilots in the Coast Guard? If women pilots are not up to par it should surely show up statistically.Originally posted by Damn True
Huh?
There are three types of lies:Originally posted by Serial Midget
it should surely show up statiscally.
They'll tell you all their secrets but they'll lie about their past, won't you send them off to bed forever more... Tom Waits.Originally posted by ohio
There are three types of lies:
1. Lies
2. Damn lies
3. Statistics
(credit - Mark Twain, though his formatting may have been different)