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How do you want to be remembered?

JohnE

filthy rascist
May 13, 2005
13,457
1,996
Front Range, dude...
So a HS teacher of mine recently commented regarding a FB post of mine that he remembers me throwing frisbees around and kicking hackey sacs...I replied that I think thats a pretty good way to be remembered. So the question of the day is-

How do you want to be remembered?
 

norbar

KESSLER PROBLEM. Just cause
Jun 7, 2007
11,428
1,663
Warsaw :/
I was an asshole as a kid. Though I don't really care how I'm remembered as longs as I'm feeling good and are good to the people around me in the present.
 

insanitylevel9

triple nubby
Jan 7, 2011
2,001
5
hopkinton ma
i honestly and truly dont care what people think of me or how they will remember me, i do what i wanna 90% of the time. but ill probably be remembered as that kid with no fingers no matter what i do :p.
 

skibunny24

Enthusiastic Receiver of Reputation
Jun 16, 2010
3,281
585
Renton, WA
i honestly and truly dont care what people think of me or how they will remember me, i do what i wanna 90% of the time. but ill probably be remembered as that kid with no fingers no matter what i do :p.
:rofl:

Warning: Cheesy Mushy Reply.

I just want people to remember me as a loving caring person. I have been involved in so many different sports/circles of people that there would be so many different versions of me that people will remember. The only thing that hope remains constant between all of my different interests and friends is that I truly care about others and want them to be comfortable and happy. Maybe I'm a giant cheese ball, but whatever. Even on the interwebs, I feel like you all are a bunch of brothers from other mothers, and I love getting to talk with you guys and a couple gals every day.
 

JohnE

filthy rascist
May 13, 2005
13,457
1,996
Front Range, dude...
Interesting that the younger types(!) still dont care. I didnt care when I was younger (And I really still dont) but I think 20 years down the road it is cool to remembered in a nice, mellow way as I was, especially because he was one of the cool teachers at my school.
 

jdcamb

Tool Time!
Feb 17, 2002
19,880
8,485
Nowhere Man!
That my failures in Porn are eclipsed by my success in the Rodeo. Even though I flunked out of Clown school, I still managed to be a success. The size of your clown shoes are not always an indicator of the size of Mr. Happy. Size 18 sounds good on paper but in actuality it should be considered a disability.
 

norbar

KESSLER PROBLEM. Just cause
Jun 7, 2007
11,428
1,663
Warsaw :/
Interesting that the younger types(!) still dont care. I didnt care when I was younger (And I really still dont) but I think 20 years down the road it is cool to remembered in a nice, mellow way as I was, especially because he was one of the cool teachers at my school.
In my case I just remember I was a stupid contrarian and and asshole to many of the teachers I liked. I really want to track one teacher and express how grateful I am but she moved out of town.

As for remembering me - it goes with the fact that I'm really tired right now and slowly learn to not give a crap what other people think of me. Wasted a ton of great opportunities because of that.
 

OGRipper

back alley ripper
Feb 3, 2004
10,659
1,130
NORCAL is the hizzle
As a personal growth exercise, try drafting your own obituary. It is less about what others think, more about what you hope to accomplish before you kick it. If you don't like what you come up with, make some changes.
 

AngryMetalsmith

Business is good, thanks for asking
Jun 4, 2006
21,284
10,372
I have no idea where I am
Whether I am remembered or not, my work (jewelry) will be around for a long time after I'm gone, scattered across the country and a few even making it across the pond. Some pieces will become family heirlooms, others symbols of love and commitment.





I guess this is what I'll have to settle for since World Cup DH racer is a little past my reach. :rolleyes:
 

JohnE

filthy rascist
May 13, 2005
13,457
1,996
Front Range, dude...
All I know is I want people to be laughing at my funeral about how it all happened.

It should be a first at arlington.
Not if I go first...already made the wife promise my funeral will be more like a roast. A cross between a Don Rickles show and a New Orleans funeral. With some cross over fromthe National Lampoon. My obit first goes to the Onion...
 

sstalder5

Turbo Monkey
Aug 20, 2008
1,942
20
Beech Mtn Definitely NOT Boulder
A lot of people hated my group of friends in high school. We always got away with whatever we did, threw the best parties, hung out with the hottest girls, and everyone knew who we were. I'm sure my reputation wasn't too good outside of my group of friends, but I actually had fun in high school and skated through with barely any effort. So I'm not too worried about how people from my high school remember me. And when I go back to my hometown I get to see a lot of the kids that hated us in high school still working the same minimum wage jobs looking pissed that me and most of my friends are still doing really well.
 

Repack Rider

Monkey
Oct 8, 2007
183
66
Marin County, California
I didn't have to die first.

I was virtually unnoticed in HS, never played a sport, never got an academic honor, never ran for an office.

At my 40th year reunion one of my classmates wrote a song about me and performed it, with the rest of my class joining in on the chorus. My picture now hangs in the gym even though I was the wimpiest kid in the school BITD.

Works for me.
 

insanitylevel9

triple nubby
Jan 7, 2011
2,001
5
hopkinton ma
I didn't have to die first.

I was virtually unnoticed in HS, never played a sport, never got an academic honor, never ran for an office.

At my 40th year reunion one of my classmates wrote a song about me and performed it, with the rest of my class joining in on the chorus. My picture now hangs in the gym even though I was the wimpiest kid in the school BITD.

Works for me.
if your the same repack rider as on mtbr you dont really have to worry about being forgotten you where one of the founding fathers of mountain biking.
 

mantispf2000

Turbo Monkey
Aug 9, 2001
1,795
246
Nevada, 2 hours from Mammoth
As mentioned earlier, don't cry at my service, party it up, tell jokes/stories/reminders of what I did, and if it made you laugh, that's great.

To be remembered as someone that never cared about getting knocked down, as long as I got back up and learned from it for the future. In other words...... didn't all those left hooks hurt at any time???
 

kickstand

Turbo Monkey
Sep 18, 2009
3,441
392
Fenton, MI
When my grandfather died 3 years ago everyone said things like "everyone liked george", "george was so smart", "he was such a good father, grandfather, etc", "remember when george was in the service and he did this?", "or how about the time he helped do this?"

I wouldn't mind being remembered like that.
 

CrabJoe StretchPants

Reincarnated Crab Walking Head Spinning Bruce Dick
Nov 30, 2003
14,163
2,484
Groton, MA
I'm halfway through my life at this age, you know, and I've been an angry son of a bitch, and I've got to turn this around, man. I'm embarrassed with my--i don't want to be that guy. You die as the angry guy. That's the worst dude to die as, because then people have got to try to think of happy sh1t to say about you at your funeral. They're just sitting there like...."You know, he always paid his bills on time, you know. You've got to give him that, you know. God damn it, you gave this guy a bill, he paid it. This guy was a bill-paying son of a bitch, ironed his shirts. I....I got nothing. I don't know what else to say about the guy."
 

local717

Monkey
Apr 11, 2010
260
27
Mt.Gretna/Lancaster
I'm halfway through my life at this age, you know, and I've been an angry son of a bitch, and I've got to turn this around, man. I'm embarrassed with my--i don't want to be that guy. You die as the angry guy. That's the worst dude to die as, because then people have got to try to think of happy sh1t to say about you at your funeral. They're just sitting there like...."You know, he always paid his bills on time, you know. You've got to give him that, you know. God damn it, you gave this guy a bill, he paid it. This guy was a bill-paying son of a bitch, ironed his shirts. I....I got nothing. I don't know what else to say about the guy."
That seriously made me laugh out loud!
 

jonKranked

Detective Dookie
Nov 10, 2005
86,234
24,736
media blackout
A lot of people hated my group of friends in high school. We always got away with whatever we did, threw the best parties, hung out with the hottest girls, and everyone knew who we were. I'm sure my reputation wasn't too good outside of my group of friends, but I actually had fun in high school and skated through with barely any effort. So I'm not too worried about how people from my high school remember me. And when I go back to my hometown I get to see a lot of the kids that hated us in high school still working the same minimum wage jobs looking pissed that me and most of my friends are still doing really well.
i DGAF how my high school friends remember me. most of them were eligible for such ground breaking reality television such as "teen mom" and "cops". The number of high school friend's i keep in touch with can be counted on one of insanitylevel9's hands.
 
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DirtMcGirk

<b>WAY</b> Dumber than N8 (to the power of ten alm
Feb 21, 2008
6,379
1
Oz
I'm hoping someone will memorialize me with Hunter S Thompson's memorial to Oscar Zeta:
&#8220;There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. Some kind of high powered mutant never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die.&#8221;

I'd also like it if there was a great deal of speculation surrounding my death. Sightings of me in remote lands, rumors that I've started a cult and had faked my own death, maybe some jealous husband offering up a bounty on my head.
 

JRogers

talks too much
Mar 19, 2002
3,785
1
Claremont, CA
That was from a Bill Burr standup, folks. Not me........though somewhat striking resemblance.
I thought that sounded familiar. I even threw a sentence or two of it into Google to see if it was from somewhere, but nothing came up.

I'd like to be remembered for doing things against my better judgment and instincts.