Instant turn off / deal breaker
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Gauged ears is a turnoff for me. I've talked to a few otherwise good looking girls that have gauged ears and I just can't do it.
And I like skinny girls. The guys on my hall have been ripping on me for the girl I've been seeing the past few weeks. 5'8'' 120lb 32C. They all think she's too skinny but that's pretty much my ideal girl
And I like skinny girls. The guys on my hall have been ripping on me for the girl I've been seeing the past few weeks. 5'8'' 120lb 32C. They all think she's too skinny but that's pretty much my ideal girl
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Gauged ears.
Tramp stamps. NO GO!
Pounds of make-up. (meaning their neck is a different color than their face).
Short hair. Depends how short the hair is, nothing shorter than 5 inches, and only a few chicks can rock short hair right.
Kids. Oh gosh, I am 20 years old and have the cutest, funniest and one of the smartest (in a masters program at Drexel currently) girls I've met and she is a co-worker. She is 23 and has a kid that is 7 months old, can't do it but if I had to go out with one person it would be her...
Terrible grammar.
Scantily dressed girls. Often hot at college yes, but that usually means party girl trouble/drama if I did go out with them and did not indeed just makeout with them.
Kissy faces. No girls with kissy faces on facebook.
Tree huggers. A little green is ok. Chaining oneself to a tree is another.
Skinny skinny girls. For real, I like girls that look like they lift. Not hulking, but toned and healthy. Lightly showing six pack and arms with a little definition, that's what I am saying.
Crappy family. If I do indeed get this far, if the family sucks, I have learned it is a NO GO.
Oh gosh, I guess I am picky, really picky. Maybe the right one will come along someday. That girl at work is awesome, yea she messed up a little... It happens, that kid changed her a lot I think too. I just am not in a place to be in a relationship, and I couldn't deal with a kid looking at me as a father figure till I'm older.
Tramp stamps. NO GO!
Pounds of make-up. (meaning their neck is a different color than their face).
Short hair. Depends how short the hair is, nothing shorter than 5 inches, and only a few chicks can rock short hair right.
Kids. Oh gosh, I am 20 years old and have the cutest, funniest and one of the smartest (in a masters program at Drexel currently) girls I've met and she is a co-worker. She is 23 and has a kid that is 7 months old, can't do it but if I had to go out with one person it would be her...
Terrible grammar.
Scantily dressed girls. Often hot at college yes, but that usually means party girl trouble/drama if I did go out with them and did not indeed just makeout with them.
Kissy faces. No girls with kissy faces on facebook.
Tree huggers. A little green is ok. Chaining oneself to a tree is another.
Skinny skinny girls. For real, I like girls that look like they lift. Not hulking, but toned and healthy. Lightly showing six pack and arms with a little definition, that's what I am saying.
Crappy family. If I do indeed get this far, if the family sucks, I have learned it is a NO GO.
Oh gosh, I guess I am picky, really picky. Maybe the right one will come along someday. That girl at work is awesome, yea she messed up a little... It happens, that kid changed her a lot I think too. I just am not in a place to be in a relationship, and I couldn't deal with a kid looking at me as a father figure till I'm older.
Add the facial piercings to that list as well..... Nose I can kind of live with, but the lips, eyebrows, cheeks...... Not cool.... Ugly as ****.....Gauged ears is a turnoff for me. I've talked to a few otherwise good looking girls that have gauged ears and I just can't do it.
Yep. It's just not attractive.
And I think Iridemtb pretty much hit the nail on the head with his list. I agree with every last detail.
I forgot to add if they have mother drama.
Not that they have kids, that's an auto deal stopper, but if their momma is a loon.
Like a reformed alcoholic, who was never really an alcoholic to begin with, turned lesbian, uber butch thunder cunt divorce lawyer mother. I avoid those like herpes now.
Not that they have kids, that's an auto deal stopper, but if their momma is a loon.
Like a reformed alcoholic, who was never really an alcoholic to begin with, turned lesbian, uber butch thunder cunt divorce lawyer mother. I avoid those like herpes now.
We had an electrical component sales rep who used to come visit at work. She was smart, fit and attractive. Then I saw she had one of those Insane Clown Posse stickers on her car...
Oh man you just made my night. That was hilarious... hahaha!I bet someone stuck it on there without her knowing what it is. Mad funny.
+ Rep for that story.
No such thing here.
If Ann Coulter turned me on I'd turn her out at least once. Little head wins every time.
Juggalo is a "race" that should be exterminated wholesale. Like pound puppies, gas them all and use their bodies for fuel to kill the others.
See, I have this moral dilemma within all the time. I won't just bang anyone, it either a.) has to be mega hot, (her being a 10, she has to be like a 8.5 or 9. or b.) I have been dating them for some time.
Example of a 10.
I was at this house party a few days ago and there was a 7/10 I knew that was buzzed and wanted to give me head, and she was down to her panties and bra in front of me. Turned it down, I have mad control, but it was super hard.
Iridemtb - nice list. Seriously.
I made a list when I was about 13 that included the qualities I wanted in a future husband. It was a school-girl thing to do at the time, but it served me well later on. I knew it was foolish to date anyone I wouldn't marry (unless I really just wanted to invite drama and heartache). With this in mind, if a guy I thought I liked didn't fit the criteria, I knew he probably wasn't the right one. It made it easier to move on and not make attachments that would be hard to break.
I was somewhat surprised when I met the guy who did fit the criteria when I was only 20. Astoundingly he felt the same way. With several intervals of date/break up for a time, we got married shortly before my 24th birthday and I was terrified. I think I was still too selfish to really love someone at that time. I married him because I felt romantic about him, I admired him, he fit the description of the man I wanted to marry, his family are good and loving people, because I couldn't bear the thought of walking away from him, and because I knew that no matter what, we could work together to build a life. I wanted to be on his team forever.
We just celebrated 20 years. We've certainly had our share of ups and downs, but I'm certainly the lucky one. He's probably one of the more patient men on the planet.
Knowing what you want is very important. Compromising will usually cause resentment.
So BTW, there are only a few of your choices up there in the poll that shouldn't be deal-breakers for everyone. Maybe you like cats, or chatterboxes... They would all have been deal-breakers for me except the bacon one. If he hates bacon, that means more for me.
I made a list when I was about 13 that included the qualities I wanted in a future husband. It was a school-girl thing to do at the time, but it served me well later on. I knew it was foolish to date anyone I wouldn't marry (unless I really just wanted to invite drama and heartache). With this in mind, if a guy I thought I liked didn't fit the criteria, I knew he probably wasn't the right one. It made it easier to move on and not make attachments that would be hard to break.
I was somewhat surprised when I met the guy who did fit the criteria when I was only 20. Astoundingly he felt the same way. With several intervals of date/break up for a time, we got married shortly before my 24th birthday and I was terrified. I think I was still too selfish to really love someone at that time. I married him because I felt romantic about him, I admired him, he fit the description of the man I wanted to marry, his family are good and loving people, because I couldn't bear the thought of walking away from him, and because I knew that no matter what, we could work together to build a life. I wanted to be on his team forever.
We just celebrated 20 years. We've certainly had our share of ups and downs, but I'm certainly the lucky one. He's probably one of the more patient men on the planet.
Knowing what you want is very important. Compromising will usually cause resentment.
So BTW, there are only a few of your choices up there in the poll that shouldn't be deal-breakers for everyone. Maybe you like cats, or chatterboxes... They would all have been deal-breakers for me except the bacon one. If he hates bacon, that means more for me.
I have that kind of control when I'm sober... But I've gotten sh!tfaced and banged a few 6's in the past. But the girl I'm with now is about an 8.5 and wild in bed
Edit: Heading over to her place right now...
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another mans 10 is another mans 2
I have had some hotties and other have called me crazy but know this
no matter how hot she is, someone somewhere is tired of her chit
I have had some hotties and other have called me crazy but know this
no matter how hot she is, someone somewhere is tired of her chit
In addition to all the other carp, add scrapbooking and collecting ridiculous sh!t like Hummel or Precious Momnet figurines. Shopping at a Hallmark store =automatic disqualifier...
Well if you're cruising a senior citizen's home I guess that'd be a worry....
Iridemtb - nice list. Seriously.
I made a list when I was about 13 that included the qualities I wanted in a future husband. It was a school-girl thing to do at the time, but it served me well later on. I knew it was foolish to date anyone I wouldn't marry (unless I really just wanted to invite drama and heartache). With this in mind, if a guy I thought I liked didn't fit the criteria, I knew he probably wasn't the right one. It made it easier to move on and not make attachments that would be hard to break.
I was somewhat surprised when I met the guy who did fit the criteria when I was only 20. Astoundingly he felt the same way. With several intervals of date/break up for a time, we got married shortly before my 24th birthday and I was terrified. I think I was still too selfish to really love someone at that time. I married him because I felt romantic about him, I admired him, he fit the description of the man I wanted to marry, his family are good and loving people, because I couldn't bear the thought of walking away from him, and because I knew that no matter what, we could work together to build a life. I wanted to be on his team forever.
We just celebrated 20 years. We've certainly had our share of ups and downs, but I'm certainly the lucky one. He's probably one of the more patient men on the planet.
Knowing what you want is very important. Compromising will usually cause resentment.
So BTW, there are only a few of your choices up there in the poll that shouldn't be deal-breakers for everyone. Maybe you like cats, or chatterboxes... They would all have been deal-breakers for me except the bacon one. If he hates bacon, that means more for me.
must spread rep....
I like how you thinkIf he hates bacon, that means more for me.
If I were not already married to the Queen of All That is Awesome:
Fake titties. (or fake hair, nails, etc) You're a liar and your boobs feel weird? FAIL.
Smoking. Been there, done that. Quit 13 years ago and I hate the smell now.
Insecurity/jealousy. If you were the last woman on earth, then I would only look at you. In the meantime...
Fake titties. (or fake hair, nails, etc) You're a liar and your boobs feel weird? FAIL.
Smoking. Been there, done that. Quit 13 years ago and I hate the smell now.
Insecurity/jealousy. If you were the last woman on earth, then I would only look at you. In the meantime...
I don't limit myself.
Being jealous on my bike...
"you spend way more time with your bike than with me"
"you spend way more time with your bike than with me"
true.
A 10 according to marketing, but turns into a painted shambling shell on aging.
Them what needs to gussy themselves up with gallons of paint, adhesive, hardware and dye to present in public tend to lack the self confidence to live an honest, open life, which is important in a long term relationship. This applies to both sexes.
Smoking
Jealousy (just because I'm on a diet, doesn't mean I can't look at the menu)
Having to "put on a face" to go anywhere
Jealousy (just because I'm on a diet, doesn't mean I can't look at the menu)
Having to "put on a face" to go anywhere
Average American, or "a few extra pounds." They just don't do it for me. I can only get into thin framed girls.
Stupid or bland. I perfer the nerd girls with personality.
Stupid or bland. I perfer the nerd girls with personality.
The good news is, it looks like some of you dumb assholes will never manage to breed.
Holy hell! That is a total train wreck....with big fluffy titties!!!
vericose veins
Holy hell am I with you on that one...I have been in about 3 or 4 short term gigs like that and it drives me nuts. The benefits were to nice at the time to call it off but it got old.
That, and the truck.
Biggest turn off has to be when a girl gets down with Jesus so much so, that she wont go by planned parenthood if the rubber breaks.
I think that one goes with republican pretty well too, never making that mistake again
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Now thats some funny ****!!!
Total opposite for me to be honest. I find the motherly aspect of girls with kids insanely attractive. Granted I've known I've wanted kids for the longest time, so that's a big one with me.
And to those with the gauged ears/piercings/tattoos as a turn off........you guys are nuts.
you're probably into cwd's tooTotal opposite for me to be honest. I find the motherly aspect of girls with kids insanely attractive. Granted I've known I've wanted kids for the longest time, so that's a big one with me.
And to those with the gauged ears/piercings/tattoos as a turn off........you guys are nuts.
I like to keep an open mind.........and butthole.
All it takes is one drunken night with a stripper... or I guess for some of these guys one night with a cheap hooker
A night!? Waaaaay too much credit. All I need is 15 seconds. A lot more economical that way. More bang for the buck.All it takes is one drunken night with a stripper... or I guess for some of these guys one night with a cheap hooker
15 seconds? What, you like foreplay AND to cuddle afterwards?
you realize they charge by the act, not the hour right? unless you surpass the one hour mark. and which point you're probably gonna spring for more than 1 hooker in the first place
What's this "foreplay" you speak of?
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