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My Mom passed away today

Curb Hucker

Curb Hucker

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Feb 4, 2004
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After an 11 year fight with cancer my mom passed away today about 3 hours ago. I dont really know what to say, its been super hard on me but even harder on my 10 year old sister. Today has been the worst day of my life, but i will be strong and get through this. She was in the hospital for the past month and a half, and every day was full of suffering for her so as much as I feared this day would come i knew all along that she could finally at peace now. Im gonna miss her so much :(
 
Capt. Jack Sparrow

Capt. Jack Sparrow

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Jan 7, 2004
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I am so sorry to hear that. But she's in a better place now, if she was suffering. I lost a close friend to cancer a few years back. Hang in there and make sure you talk to people about how you're feeling. After a while your freshest memories of her will be the good ones, from when she was healthy. She will always be with you.
 
stinkyboy

stinkyboy

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Jan 6, 2005
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God bless you and your family Don.

Edit: Be careful dude. I got a DUI a week after my dad died after my friends finally talked me into going out for drinks, since they didn't know what else to do or say.
 
Zark

Zark

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Oct 18, 2001
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Damn Don, sorry to hear about your loss. I hope your mom knows peace now and your family can move forward with life. Best of luck bro
 
Ciaran

Ciaran

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Apr 5, 2004
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My sincerest condolences to you and your family. May God comfort you and give you strength.
 
narlus

narlus

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Nov 7, 2001
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bummer, don. sucks to hear. sounds like she was a fighter; glad to hear you got to spend good times with her for 11 years after the diagnosis was made.
 
OGRipper

OGRipper

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Feb 3, 2004
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Don that is really rough, sorry for you and your family. We give you a lot of crap but I hope you know we're here for you buddy. I can't think of anything we might be able to do to help but, well, you know, just ask.
 
Sherpa

Sherpa

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Jan 28, 2004
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Don, I love you and if you ever need anything you have my number. You and your family are in my prayers.
 
Curb Hucker

Curb Hucker

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dhtahoe said:
That is horrible Don!!! But please please please don't turn to the bottle to help ease the pain.
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Thanks Mike, but please dont worry I'm not like that. I'll never drink alone or ever drink to try to make my problems go away, I'll drink for fun with people and blackout at a party, but i never will drink for the reasons mentioned above.
 
Pau11y

Pau11y

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Oct 20, 2004
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Ouch maing! Remember to hug your little sister everyday and be human if you need to let out. Help each other. It'll ease the pain for both of you. Good luck. ~> sending good vibes your way, for you and your family ~>
 
Brian HCM#1

Brian HCM#1

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Sep 7, 2001
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Don, sorry to hear this aweful news. My condolences also to you and your family. And from past PM's if you ever need someone to talk too, please don't hesitate to call me.
 
Dartman

Dartman

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Feb 26, 2003
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Very sorry to hear that and I feel your pain.

I lost my own mother suddenly due to illness. I never got a chance to say goodbye. It does get better over time, keep your sister close and don't be afraid to talk about it. Remember better times and she will always be with you both.

Peace.

Mike
 
dan-o

dan-o

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Jun 30, 2004
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Sorry to hear about your Mom.
After watching my father fight a similar battle, it was bittersweet watching him go.
Let the grieving flow; it will never fill the hole but will temper the pain.
Watch out for your sis.
 
Skookum

Skookum

bikey's is cool
Jul 26, 2002
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i'm sorry to hear of your loss. i hope that you grow closer to your other family members and you can help each other come to peace with this loss over time.
 
SK6

SK6

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Jul 10, 2001
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My family will keep you and your family in prayer. Many who know me here know my ex-wife battled cancer. Ironically, it was the drugs and drinking that did her in. The point is that you are not alone.

There are truly no words rigjt now that I could say to ease you're pain, but rest assured, you're mom truly is no longer suffering, and actually laments your sadness.

If there is anything I can do, please feel free to ask. Again, our prayers are with you.

Ralph, Sandy and family
 
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