If someone offered a bike with a different rear caliper with different pads the "this is what's wrong with the industry" would blow up for weeks. This seems very much like a Jm specific problem. I can swap rotor diameters, wheel size, or pad material on one end of my bike and adapt with no problems in about 3 seconds. I can even jump on a motorcycle right after a bike ride or vice versa and have no issues with completely different body parts operating brakes with different power.But they don't. They only need to absorb more energy in terms of time, not in terms of peak, so having them built for "peak" is totally inappropriate IMO. It's the kind of usage that causes you to go through pads quicker, but you are only ever operating at a fraction of the forces of the front. That's rotor size for heat dissipation and absorption, not lever/caliper leverage.
Maybe you can sell your idea to some roadies so they can save 3 grams on rear brakes