this.I seemed to fall ass over backwards into a decent career with a decent company where I generally like my coworkers and most of the bosses I've had. I like the work, they trust me to do the work I think I should do, and I'm 100% remote so I spend my time in places that let me hike to views like this one from last weekend
I feel pretty lucky. If shit goes south, I live well below my means and could afford to take my time finding another gig.
But I think living below your means (if possible) is key to a good work/life balance. If you can afford to tell your boss to eff off, it's a lot easier to treat your job as transactional; you don't need the raise or the title, so you don't have to kill yourself trying to get them.
I have 3 years left to full timing retirement. That said I would have no hesitation to toss em my keys and walk if I got pissed off. I am at the I don't give a damn stage of my life.