I feel that way too today. Getting through the day doing work around the house.dead inside.
in high school i would be out the door by 6am to get firstiesshe loves to get first tracks.
my kids aren't quite at that age yet, but i think you're taking the right approach. a lot of this holds true for the internet in generalQuestion for other parent monkeys... my 12 year old son seems interested in Roblox and Discord. I don't know much about them, and did a bit of "my own research", but didn't find anything particularly worrying. They're both opportunities to interact with other people online.
talked to him about being safe (never tell anyone where you live or where you're going to be at any given time, and don't even think of buying anything - your mom and I will notice it on our credit cards!). We also talked about hate speech and misogyny - that people don't have filters when they interact online, so it can be tempting to jump in or pile on, but that they can still have real, severe and lasting impacts on people, so don't be a dick.
But beyond that, I'm not sure what more I can do. I guess continue monitoring and encouraging discussion... Are there any particular issues with those sites? He hasn't really ever been active with online multiplayer games (he has Minecraft, but doesn't play with other people), so I don't know how savvy he is wrt the pitfalls of the cybersphere...
i saw the new bike on fb. how pumped are you?1TB iPhone 14 pro max has been finally procured and restored via iCloud, I have 87 gigs worth of backup data, literally took 4 hours. Successfully tested the satellite messaging /tracking function and it seems significantly faster and easier than my garmin inreach mini but nowhere near the same functionality. Either way good to have two devices when needed.
in other news, panniers and parts arriving tomorrow may get my on the road to Cabo by Thursday
No experience with Discord, but my kids play Roblox on occasion. There have been a few instances of some inappropriate comments being made to one of my nieces, and one of my oldest daughters' friends. Our kids are allowed to play it on the condition that they keep the chat function disabled. We've had the discussions about the benefits of the internet, but also about how it's an absolute cesspool, and mostly filled with garbage.Question for other parent monkeys... my 12 year old son seems interested in Roblox and Discord. I don't know much about them, and did a bit of "my own research", but didn't find anything particularly worrying. They're both opportunities to interact with other people online.
talked to him about being safe (never tell anyone where you live or where you're going to be at any given time, and don't even think of buying anything - your mom and I will notice it on our credit cards!). We also talked about hate speech and misogyny - that people don't have filters when they interact online, so it can be tempting to jump in or pile on, but that they can still have real, severe and lasting impacts on people, so don't be a dick.
But beyond that, I'm not sure what more I can do. I guess continue monitoring and encouraging discussion... Are there any particular issues with those sites? He hasn't really ever been active with online multiplayer games (he has Minecraft, but doesn't play with other people), so I don't know how savvy he is wrt the pitfalls of the cybersphere...
yeesh sorry dude. xmas holidays are always rough for me b/c i lost my grandmother suddenly a couple days after christmas when i was in HS.So, wifeys dad is intubated and fully sedated, and my dad is going into palliative care.
Happy Holidays!
Question for other parent monkeys... my 12 year old son seems interested in Roblox and Discord. I don't know much about them, and did a bit of "my own research", but didn't find anything particularly worrying. They're both opportunities to interact with other people online.
talked to him about being safe (never tell anyone where you live or where you're going to be at any given time, and don't even think of buying anything - your mom and I will notice it on our credit cards!). We also talked about hate speech and misogyny - that people don't have filters when they interact online, so it can be tempting to jump in or pile on, but that they can still have real, severe and lasting impacts on people, so don't be a dick.
But beyond that, I'm not sure what more I can do. I guess continue monitoring and encouraging discussion... Are there any particular issues with those sites? He hasn't really ever been active with online multiplayer games (he has Minecraft, but doesn't play with other people), so I don't know how savvy he is wrt the pitfalls of the cybersphere...
my kids aren't quite at that age yet, but i think you're taking the right approach. a lot of this holds true for the internet in general
- they might hear mean things, bad words, etc. it's not just a matter of not having filters, but people say that kind of stuff when they know they won't get in trouble for it, or any consequences would be minimal. tell your kids they can always just turn the game off.
- people aren't always who they say they are.
- if something seems fishy, it probably is
- if something seems too good to be true, it probably is
- encourage him to talk to you if he's not sure about something
- you just lost the game
the internet can be a great tool to learn about things and connect you with others that have similar interests. sucks that we have to deal with all this nonsense nowadays.
No experience with Discord, but my kids play Roblox on occasion. There have been a few instances of some inappropriate comments being made to one of my nieces, and one of my oldest daughters' friends. Our kids are allowed to play it on the condition that they keep the chat function disabled. We've had the discussions about the benefits of the internet, but also about how it's an absolute cesspool, and mostly filled with garbage.
i know some games have age filters for online play to help keep this issue down, but it can only be so effective.No experience with Discord, but my kids play Roblox on occasion. There have been a few instances of some inappropriate comments being made to one of my nieces, and one of my oldest daughters' friends. Our kids are allowed to play it on the condition that they keep the chat function disabled. We've had the discussions about the benefits of the internet, but also about how it's an absolute cesspool, and mostly filled with garbage.
Oh man, that sucks.So, wifeys dad is intubated and fully sedated, and my dad is going into palliative care.
Happy Holidays!
It’s so fucking fun, hard dealing with pretentious Ducati fucks is the part I didn’t see comingi saw the new bike on fb. how pumped are you?
did they at least have good espresso?It’s so fucking fun, hard dealing with pretentious Ducati fucks is the part I didn’t see coming
Have you ordered a titanium Akrapovič exhaust system for the bike, yet?It’s so fucking fun, hard dealing with pretentious Ducati fucks is the part I didn’t see coming
Haley is getting into Roblox with her friends. There are some hard fast rules about it - no interactions with people not in her friend group, and I know who they are ,etc. Discord is a hard no-go.Question for other parent monkeys... my 12 year old son seems interested in Roblox and Discord. I don't know much about them, and did a bit of "my own research", but didn't find anything particularly worrying. They're both opportunities to interact with other people online.
talked to him about being safe (never tell anyone where you live or where you're going to be at any given time, and don't even think of buying anything - your mom and I will notice it on our credit cards!). We also talked about hate speech and misogyny - that people don't have filters when they interact online, so it can be tempting to jump in or pile on, but that they can still have real, severe and lasting impacts on people, so don't be a dick.
But beyond that, I'm not sure what more I can do. I guess continue monitoring and encouraging discussion... Are there any particular issues with those sites? He hasn't really ever been active with online multiplayer games (he has Minecraft, but doesn't play with other people), so I don't know how savvy he is wrt the pitfalls of the cybersphere...
does roblox let you set up private servers? when i got into online gaming in high school that's what we didHaley is getting into Roblox with her friends. There are some hard fast rules about it - no interactions with people not in her friend group, and I know who they are ,etc. Discord is a hard no-go.
I suspect these are Jabronis, not real Italian people...did they at least have good espresso?
not just that, but west coast jabronisI suspect these are Jabronis, not real Italian people...
FTFY.Discord is like reddit, anything goes really. It's just less transparent.
While you have some aspect of control, you never truly know who is in the chat. If you even listened to a headset chat with a bunch of groms playing, holy shit - usually gets brutal and racist if it gets out of their little group from school.why is that?