i have a place that i could move into in cary if i wanted to but i figure at this stage of my life (29) i need to go ahead and stick by my guns on what i want and what i dont want. When i left raleigh and moved up here the first thing i said to myself was "never again will i move back"jdschall said:Biggins - maybe Flagstaff is where you need to go then. I agree. I lived in Chapel Hill for about 9 years. When I left swore I hated it and never wanted to go back. I've been gone about 6 months and I would die to go back (although there other places I'd rather go even more). Its just not that bad really compared to some places.