Sorry to butt in! I am married-have been for over a year now! I was sooooo happy to take his last name because I can't stand my old last name...lets just say I got teased alot from the movie Space Balls (Swartz)! Thanks for marrying me Ethan! :love: Back on subject...unless the last name was completly terrible I feel that taking the husband last name is good. However, I think that the women should choose...after all..it's there name!!!