[hooples3]

If you could honestly tell yourself that you are still into her.. and want to be with her and take it to the next level .. then i would ask her out on a date and see where it goes.. start off as slow as possible at first.. dont rush into anything....
you also need to find out how she feels about you .. she may not have the same feelings anymore

 

[MMike]

Run away!! Bang as many chicks as possible!

 

[Konabumm]

 

[Yossarian]

Normally with any breakup I say never go back. It didn't work last time, why would you expect a different result this time?

That statement is a little jaded. My wife and I dated for a year or so, broke up for two years, started dating again and have been happily married for 8 years, with 2 children.

 

[bluebug32]

I think inside you know the answer to your question. You just want us to reaffirim it for you.

Take charge of your own life and claim ownership over your choices and decisions. Obviously you're having doubts of some kind if you need to ask us for advice first.

 

[Total Heckler]

That statement is a little jaded. My wife and I dated for a year or so, broke up for two years, started dating again and have been happily married for 8 years, with 2 children.

Thats a happy story. =]

 

[Total Heckler]

Thanks everyone for responding.

Last night we had one of those epic 4 hour talks and we both really do love each other. We mutually decided to move on for now and if we were meant to be together, then something would happen. I'm not really kind of person who thinks that things happen because they are supposed to / things happen for a reason - but hey, maybe they do.

I just wanted to say thanks again guys for some good advice. I really feel so much better about everything. I know this is making me a stronger person. Someone told me (get ready for the cheesy line) 'If you love someone set them free'.

Her and I in Florence Italy.

 

[LordOpie]

get back with her. What's the worst that will happen? You two are together for a few more years and wind up hating each other? Big deal.

 

[robdamanii]

get back with her. What's the worst that will happen? You two are together for a few more years and wind up hating each other? Big deal.

 

[MMike]

"...and tomorrow on Oprah....."

 

[robdamanii]

"...and tomorrow on Oprah....."

Tyra is the new Oprah.

 

[SkaredShtles]

<snip>

Her and I in Florence Italy.

Pretty strained smile, there, Sport.

Did you find yourself ogling the dark haired beauties when you were in Italy?

Next time visit Stockholm, but make sure you're unattached when you do.

 

[LordOpie]

If she turns out to be a cheating whore like my ex-girlfriend, set her on fire... it's the only way to cleanse her soul.

 

[H8R]

If she turns out to be a cheating whore like my ex-girlfriend, set her on fire... it's the only way to cleanse her soul.

Now THAT is some Dr. Phil advise if I ever heard it!

 

[H8R]

BTW -

I married my pregnant GF at 21. We had a daughter 2 months later. We were poor, happy and in love.

Flash forward 13 years and I have sole custody of my daughter and we don't know where her coked-out whore of a mother is. We haven't heard from her in over 2 years.

Things change.

 

[MMike]

You dumped da bitch once. Don't look back.......